how can i do it?does it always bleed?
2007-06-24 05:05:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I would go to your doc., if you really want help with removing your hymen.
Why is it so important to you for your boyfriend not to know your a virgin? I think, it would be an honor for him to share this with you. Besides what kind of relationship will you have with him, if you can't be honest with him about something so special.
FYI: Sometime women lose (break/tear) their hymen through vigorous exercise.
It doesn't always bleed, depending how much of your hymen is attached.
2007-06-25 05:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want your boyfriend to know? This is a relationship and you both should be openly honest to each other. I would tell him you are a virgin its fair to him and who knows he may be a virgin too. Your hymen might have already been broken by playing sports, horse back riding, or using a tampon. Any of those ways can break the hymen. It could be broken you just don't know it. Good luck!
2007-06-24 05:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even of you manage to break the hymen, hes going to know your a virgin. Whether you go horseback riding, masturbation or anything else, its not the same as having a man's "member" in there. There is going to be discomfort the first few times you have sex and also, without being rude; your not going to know what youre doing. Coordination and rythm wont be as natural-- which only comes with time and having sex with your partner.
I would be honest with him-- if he doesnt respect the fact that you are a virgin; would you really want someone like that around?
If he doesnt care, then being your first time- you can ask him to be more gentle. Also, he can guide you through it so your not scared and tense the entire time. If you have lied to him about it, then thats something you would have to work out with him.
good luck
2007-06-24 05:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others, it is very strange if you don't want him to know you're a virgin and that seems like a weird way of doing things...are you sure this is what you want? Think carefully.
If you're sure, then you could either stretch it out with fingers and stuff or, basically just stick objects in there like a d*** and it should break. It bleeds with some girls.
2007-06-24 14:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always bleeds when it's broken, but if you don't want him to know (I don't understand why), then you can tell him that you don't think it has been broken even though you've had sex before. This is possible. So you can warn him that if he is bigger than the other guy he may very well get the cherry that the others didn't.
2007-06-24 05:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by jeffandchristymoss@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 00:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to break the hymen would be to use a tampon, that should do the trick.
2007-06-24 07:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by Airelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that for?Being a virgin,is something a woman should be proud of.Anyway,a little bleeding is expected after she loses her virginity.Not all women,experience this though.All I can say is,cherish the moment,girl.
2007-06-24 05:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by blaquebeauty12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it does bleed but i wouldnt worry about it at all -- some guys like the thought of being with a virgin and it does make it more special -
2007-06-24 05:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Medusa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
being a virgin isnt a bad thing you know!
and no some women dont bleed during their first time-
2007-06-24 05:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋