Do you consider your words could have harmful consequences?

Question

Do you stand behind everything you say? Or hide behind secrecy. So you won't be shown as being some Gutless Coward?

Making statements of concern for someone's well-being, is commendable.
But to make statements. And then NOT own up to them? Is that not a sure sign of being about as low as they come?

How do I treat someone, who has damaged a friendship. And doesn't have the courage to come foward to admitt it. And claim your Trophy, that you tried so hard to get?

If you don't wish to brag in public? My e-mail is open. At least be Mature enough to admit to me!!

Answer 1

I'll own up to everything I've said and I think most people on here know that . I've even publicly apologized for being wrong or mistaken many times .

Answer 2

As a general rule, I choose my words carefully. But I've been guilty, on occasion, of letting something slip that would be better left unspoken.
Do you have issues with another Y!A user? I ask this because I've lost contact with a couple of people on here & I don't know why. It may very well have nothing to do with me, but it makes me wonder.
In this case, I think you're doing the right thing by keeping a line of communication open.
Good luck.

Answer 3

to be perfectly honest I dont always say the right thing. I usally say all the wrong things when i am mad beacause who ever i am mad at wont let me leave long enough to cool down. when i get mad i have to have a cool down moment before i talk about it but some people dont allow me this and therefore they get there feelings hurt and then i feel like a complete jerk. but after all is over i always appologize simply because i know i shouldnt be discussing anything when i am angry even if i cant leave at that particular moment. so in the end i always own up to what i have said good or bad. im human and i will make mistakes but im ordinary beacuse i own up to them.

Answer 4

you never know who a true friend really is in this world i thought i did but i was sadly mistaken and there are alot of cowards out there even when they say there not.iam sorry for your broken heart it will heal in time good luck with future friends its hard to trust again for one thing a friend should talk to you in person not talk **** behind there back on here how low is that

Answer 5

I'm not a gutless coward, so it can't be me you're upset with.
I own up to my statements and won't say anything if I feel I can't own up to it.
Sorry to hear somebody upset you.
I've had that happen and things just weren't the same after.

Answer 6

I do think about the consequences of my words...I even re-read them to try and see if they can be mistaken for a different meaning then I intended...(they do get twisted a lot by others)..I know you on here, your a kind and thoughtful person...whoever has hurt you or someone you care about should step up and explain themselves. I sure hope your day gets better...

Answer 7

Buzz....you know I do...whatever comes out of my mouth (or keyboard) is always from the heart...sometimes you need to dance around a bit to not hurt someone's feelings....but I always try to truthful deal with people....and honestly...if they can't deal with it....OOPS...sometimes the truth of a situation is hard to deal with....but it must be dealt with.

Answer 8

You should always think before you speak and stand behind what you say. Don't say it if you can't stand behind it.

Answer 9

Some internet girlfriend problems?

Answer 10

I stand behind what i say