what are the benefits and losses when you are too soft.?

Question

i cannot hurt any body feelings and sometimes get into trouble.

Answer 1

Being soft is the correct mode of behavior in most life situations. There is usually no need to assert any dominance or will on another human unless it is absolutely necessary.

Only attempt to assert your will on others after you have exhausted other avenues of compromise or appeasement.

Even then, be judicious in the application.

Being soft is a good trait, as far as I'm concerned. I wish I were.

Answer 2

Being soft is the correct mode of behavior in most life situations. There is usually no need to assert any dominance or will on another human unless it is absolutely necessary.

Only attempt to assert your will on others after you have exhausted other avenues of compromise or appeasement.

Even then, be judicious in the application.

Being soft is a good trait, as far as I'm Always being "honest" in your communications may not always make you the most popular person, but it will net you respect and trust from others
You can get stepped on!!

You need to overcome the thought that telling the truth to someone (or telling them the "brutal facts") is often the best thing you can do for someone, even if they don't want to hear it.

Answer 3

You end up getting walked on and used. You kind of have to find a happy medium for being giving to others. There are so many people that take advantage of a good heart in this world. The ones that don't appreciate it I wouldn't do it for. You can help others, but just remember to look out for yourself as well.

Answer 4

You can get stepped on!!

You need to overcome the thought that telling the truth to someone (or telling them the "brutal facts") is often the best thing you can do for someone, even if they don't want to hear it.

Always being "honest" in your communications may not always make you the most popular person, but it will net you respect and trust from others.

Answer 5

the benefits are that people like u more because they know u won't hurt them easily but the losses r sumtimes htey cant trust u to be honest because usually wen u telll the truth it kinda hurts a little

Answer 6

losses: you get left behind, always the last one to be recognised, first one to be bullied and taken for granted... the list is endless.

I want to say however that you can still be soft but assertive. You first need to know what you want and then go for it in your soft, gentle ways ...

Answer 7

.....The benefit - you avoid hurting people's feelings, a benefit to you and to them

The losses - sometimes you're afraid to say what you mean, so people will often misunderstand or misinterpret your intentions...things go unsaid which need to be said, a lost opportunity

Answer 8

Personally I think women prefer hard over soft!!

Answer 9

everybody has hurt somebodies feeling even if they didn' t know it.seek therapy to get over your need to please disease.this is a tough world but a good heart isn't a bad thing. don't toughen yourself and become someone you wouldn't like just start protecting the good person you are.

Answer 10

you will be runned over your whole life by everyone that surrounds you so just be strong and say whatever is in your mind and forget the peoples feelings.