2007-06-23 22:48:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i live in a rural commmunity, and they're not takign this seriuosly....the police and hospital didnt do what they were supposed to do to get evidence.... so she walks... and yes i'm a woman... actually a girl....
2007-06-23 22:55:14 · update #1
Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
*a cyber hug*
You did good reporting it, going to the hospital but now you need to talk to a crisis councelor and/or someone you feel comfortable talking to about what happened to you and that can help you get through this difficult time.
I can relate to you even though i wasn't raped. I was sexually assualted by another male when i was a teenager, he tried to force me to have sex with him but I put up a fight. it was something that i kept to myself until years later. I remember being in shock and non-responsive. I had already known that I was gay before that happened to me.
2007-06-23 23:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Im sorry that happend to you. I dont care what anyone thinks in your community. IF they belive you or not. I encourage you to get counceling, and soon.. A councelour with give you suggestions on how to cope with this.. The first thing you wil have to do is forgive her. this may not make sence now, but in time you will find out why. THis happend to me to except by a man. I hated him for years. The hat was eating me up inside so I had to let that go.. It's between him and God now.. I would rather face punishment on earth, than face God with this
Good LUck
Jamesi
2007-06-23 23:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by James R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a gay man who was almost raped a few years back, so I know what you're going through. Men aren't offered any support or help when they're raped, just like you haven't been, and it's been the hardest part.
Fortunately, I have met some very nice people. Once I opened up to them, they gave me my strength. So my advice is to confide in those you love and who love you, because even if your trust in humankind is gone, you can't go through this alone.
2007-06-23 23:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dazcha 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do in this situation is to talk it out. It happen to a friend of mind and I know what you mean when your saying their not going to take it seriously. But you have to keep trying until you find some kind of support that does. I'm not saying that justice will be found but keep trying because something like that is hard to forgive or forget.
good luck =)
2007-06-24 00:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by kay b 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad that the medical people (encouraged by the police) didn't get some swabs of whatever was in your vagina (like saliva) so they could do a DNA test to prove you were raped (physically assaulted) by the woman.
2007-06-23 23:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sparky77x 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't mean to sound negative or anything. but I don't know how much the Doctor's can actually. The police definitely can if you can come up with some proof. Rape is not cool, no matter what gender. How did this even happen?
2007-06-23 23:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Im assuming your also a woman in that case i would contact a theripist or a rape canceling group even if your a man and said no it is still RAPE!
2007-06-23 22:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by photofan25 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Check for a rape counseling in your area. They would have just the info you need to get.
Good Luck
2007-06-24 01:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Big Red 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not good. I am Christian. I have not always been strong in my faith or even practising much at all and this has affected the level of protection (or not) that I have received from God. If you follow Matthew 5:39 and don't resist any attack and pray continually, and preferably be living a lifestyle free of the works of the flesh to begin with (Galatians 5:19-21 - "The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God") then you will be safe. You might be physically assaulted and it might be scary, but you won't be raped.
2007-06-23 22:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by MiD 4 · 1⤊ 9⤋
If you want to report it you should but please ask yourself and answer honest did you in any way want it to happen if it's regret just get on with life and if not report it.
2007-06-23 22:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by graham nash 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋