is there any preperation that i need before i get fingered? ANYTHING! and guys, what should i do about shaving. should i be completely naked? any additional info would b great. thanks!
2007-06-23 18:09:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
stop worrying - u sound like u r already more than half way to having a good time, as u are keen to keep your bf happy - men all appreciate girls like that. the mechanics are less important if the goodwill to give one another pleasure is there at the start.... if u like him and are turned on by him u will get pretty moist anyway, sometimes even really wet....which helps the penis move back and forth easily inside u.....when he is fingering u.... u cd ask him to smooth some of the moisture from yr vagina onto your nipples and then kiss them..... by then u will be well able to take him inside u and he will be well hard enough to give u a good time.... optional extra....... get some of yr juice onto a couple of yr fingers and rub it firmly into the crack between his buttocks while he is penetrating u........ heaven...... (well for the guy anyway, and the more u excite him the more he will excite you and fill you with loads of semen ! );
as to the shaving aspect...... i suppose different men like different things but i like a girl to have hair there in the first place but to let me shave it off for her before i get inside her for the first time...... i just find that v v erotic...... and i do prefer being able to finger and kiss the vulva without getting pubes in my mouth......
2007-06-24 05:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You do NOT need to shave. Most guys don't want to mess with girls who look/feel like they are ten years old. The only preparation is to do a lot of kissing and hugging that will make you turned on, which produces a natural lubrication. If you're dry from not enough fooling around first, it will not feel good at all. Make sure his fingernails are short!
2007-06-24 02:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Maple 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
~You don't have to shave! The best thing you could do for each of you, is to be clean. The guy should stick his finger in his mouth before inserting, and start out easy.
They don't care if you're naked or not, as long as they know their getting some.~
**Guys definitely have clean hands. No eating Jalapenos first!
2007-06-24 01:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
shaving is always good (hopefully this is a girl taking it from the front)
maybe you should try yourself first (or before) so it wont hurt you if its rough
you dont really have to be naked just under the pants
2007-06-23 18:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Make sure that you are shaven. Thats a must. If you have it already planned, yes be naked, if it isnt planned dont worry about it, the guy will put his hand down and do his thing. No worries.
2007-06-23 18:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't think there's really much you should do to plan for something like this. When it happened to me, it just HAPPENED...I never would have expected it, which made it a whole lot easier because i wasn't anxious or nervous...try not to think about it too much...if you're comfortable with it and it happens, let it happen :)
2007-06-23 18:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
shave, i cant imagine any girl not shaving while having a bf, even not having one. i say be comfortable and let him lick you to sorta open you up. and tell him not to just jam it up there, be slow and gentle
2007-06-23 20:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
just relax, let it happen and allow yourself to enjoy it.
2007-06-24 03:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wash your hands!!!!
2007-06-23 21:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
none
2007-06-23 18:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋