The daughter lives with her grandmother for her whole life--7 months.
The grandmother pretends she owns the daughter, and threatens if we take her that she will fight us in court-
-see the reasons in my other question--http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ar5qtk6R1HRJjSUOU5Iqyjvsy6IX?qid=20070623014412AAfCehF
Normally, if we fought for custody, the mother could claim we were unfit parents. However we could argue that we'll just make another baby, and it's impossible for all of the next ones to be handled by the grandmother--and I doubt the grandmother actually "doesnt want us to have a child" as she just wants our first one that she is close to.
What would a judge do? Would he award my mother-in-law the first baby and imply for us to make another? Or would he let our baby stay ours and we have the rights to our child (as we presently do).
We have had not had our kid taken away ever--we just let her have her, assuming we'll take her back in a couple years.
2007-06-23 17:53:16 · 6 answers · asked by Voltaire's book Candide 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Finally, I have found them. You two amoral, sub-human species members are the perfect poster children for legalized, forced sterilization.
You both should be (and undoubtedly eventually will be) institutionalized. Like a couple of feral dogs you two just want to keep having litters of mutts that society will end of paying for. Welfare and then jail for these genetically f*@ked horde of mutants.
My tax dollars hard at work.
2007-06-23 18:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
This has to stop now. The grandmother is the grandmother; NOT the mother.
Your mother-in-law is certainly welcome to help raise the baby and spend time with it, but you are the parents and need to take the responsibility from her. Your wife might be mentally unstable, but as long as she is getting professional help to keep her balanced, then there is no excuse for her not to be the mother she should be.
If your wife's psychologist thinks that it is in the best interests to have the grandmother raise your child, then I defer to their expertise.
As for making another child, think about this more carefully. You seem unready to be parents for the one child you do have. What makes you think you are ready to take on the responsibilities now?
2007-06-24 01:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin k 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you have not had the child legally removed from your care, you have not signed over custody to your mother-in-law, nor severed your parental rights, you still have custody of your daughter. If she fights in court, she will have to prove you unfit parents. If you are not unfit, then you will win.
2007-06-24 01:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by kitty_cat_claws_99 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ridiculous.... You don't want that child, and you shouldn't have another, which would probably end up with Grandma too... Sounds like you need some growing up , as well as an awful lot of medical care and counselling.
2007-06-24 01:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
<>Your other question reveals some major problems. I STRONGLY suggest you and your wife get some counseling and straighten yourselves out before possibly subjecting your daughter to the trauma of your flawed and abusive mutual relationship...for her sake.
2007-06-24 01:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by druid 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No...you must give your girl to the post man who will see that she is given to some asshole...who IS legal!
2007-06-24 01:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by marky_ohh 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋