2007-06-23 16:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
If you REALLY care about this person then do NOT say anything to her about dating for one full year after you have graduated school. Saying anything about dating to her now is inviting a whole world of HURT down upon her. It is illegal for her to date you at this time and if anyone had even the slightest suspicion and said anything she could stand to lose her job, her teaching degree, her professional credibility and, in all likelihood, have criminal charges brought against her. No matter how much you say it was your idea and you are okay with it, the law, the media and the general public will crucify her for being the "Adult in a position of authority".
So, unless you care nothing for this person, DO NOT ask her out at this time. If you absolutely MUST, then take a moment to thank her for teaching you for the last ? amount of time with a nice Thank You card and include your phone number and /or e-mail address on the card. If she wishes to stay in contact with you then she can, if not, you will know your feelings are not reciprocated and you can move on.
2007-06-23 16:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by d4dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was a girl in your class and not your teacher, that would be fine. Honestly though, this is not right. She is an authority figure in your life and should not be toying with, nevertheless acting upon, the idea of engaging in a sexual relationship with a student. Even if it feels like she's not, she's taking advantage of you. Age doesn't matter. Even if she was 20, 24, 30, or 50, a teacher should never get involved with a student.. ever. As a psychology student, I'd say that she has control issues. Since you say she is beautiful, she could definitely engage in relationships with guys her own age or older. Since she's engaging you, her student (and maybe other students too), I think that she is (outside of school) a shy, passive person and wants control. She feels she could control you because you're younger and you're her student. Definitely stay away from her. Whatever she's looking for.. it's not a real relationship. Whatever she's doing, it's not honest, morally correct, or legal. I'm sure you have hot girls (who aren't your teacher) to bone... if she keeps this up, I'd do something about it, just don't do her. Good luck!
2016-05-18 23:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean you'll be a senior next year, don't ask. It would be inappropriate for your teacher to accept and once your teacher -1-knows what your interest is and -2- turns you down, life is going to be very uncomfortable between you thereafter.
If you were a senior and have graduated, still go slowly. Just because you're interested in your hot teacher doesn't mean the feelings are mutual. Your teacher may still see you as a student and may still feel you're off limits. Or your teacher may actually have a life outside of teaching and already have a steady date.
2007-06-23 16:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by sonofstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you respect her, you won't. It doesn't matter that you're 18 or a senior, she could get in serious trouble for dating you.
Now if she chooses to date you, that's on her, not you. But you asking her would be very uncomfortable for her.
There is generally a period of time between when a student graduates and when a teacher can date them without going against the professional ethics, although I couldn't see myself dating a student ever.
If you're really interested in her, find out what that time period is from someone reliable. Wait and then look her up when that time has lapsed.
2007-06-23 16:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if she were to say yes, she would be an idiot. I'm not saying this as an insult to you, but no teacher can go out with a student without putting her career in serious jeopardy. If you were a graduate student talking about your professor, I'd say wait until you graduate, but high school students just talk way too much, and she would be risking her job to go out with a recent graduate.
2007-06-23 16:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by neniaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Your teacher might not be able to resist a 18 year old high school senior who can't get a date with a classmate and if she couldn't resist you , you would end up causing yourself and her a lot of problems. Buzz off junior!
2007-06-23 16:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by yancychipper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you graduate, then just ask her out like you would anyone else. It is against the law for a teacher to date a student even if you are of age.
2007-06-23 16:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Shalvia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good way to get her fired. You can always ask, but she'll probably say no so she doesn't get arrested. Sorry dude. Maybe you can wait a few years and try again. At least you'll be in college.
2007-06-23 16:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not try this. You will be embarassed for a life time.
Stay with your contemporaries.
Also you will get the teacher fired.
2007-06-23 16:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Michael M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Graduate first. If your teacher says yes, don't go. Your teacher has problems and you should run.
2007-06-23 16:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Noelbelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋