you see me and my boyfriend have talked about doind oral sex but i just dont know if it's the right age for me to do it. oh i forot to tell you i am 14 years old!
2007-06-23 16:08:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Wait until you are in a safe, committed relationship with a grown man who respects you and will stand by you better or worse, and also until you are grown up enough to know and understand your body, the repsonsibilities of sex and the responsibilities of romantic relationships, and also wait until you have your own job, car, apartment (means to support yourself). Marriage is preferable. If you aren't ready for marriage, you more than likely are not ready for sex in any form.
2007-06-23 16:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by sparki777 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
omg hun... I'm going to be honest when I was 14 years old I was thinking about it but I wasn't comfortable to do it. Honestly I think you are way to young to do it. Also I think its a bit degrading to women when a man/boy asks for oral sex and in return its something I will not ask for. I always told myself I would wait till I was 18 because by then I would have been a little more level headed and educated. Abstinence is always the best way to go but if you ever do decide to have any kind of sex you need to make sure you are protected and prepared for the consequences. Don't grow up to fast :)
2007-06-24 22:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by MiSs. BeHaVe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is going to ask that of you but are you going to toss away what should be a girl's greatest value like it is something to just throw away?
Get a hold of yourself, you are not even a woman yet and look at the way you could end up. Likely you will not like it because afterwards you will feel guilty, cheap and used so that it will hurt you inside your soul.
There is never a regret saying no yet you could feel so horrid if you allowed this to happen. How do you know that stories will not go around about what you did and what you look like down there to other boys in your school. You could get so teased and bullied. Be safe, do not do it.
2007-06-25 19:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to not do it at all. I mean you are only 14 years old. Tell him that if he can't respect your boundaries then you don't need to be together. Also if you do oral he will push you into having a very sexual relationship ending with you pregnant or broken up because you weren't putting out all that he wanted.
Also if you watch him closely you will find that he is probably with another female who is giving him this type of treatment. So, just if I were you I would tell him no. MEN ARE DOG'S SWEETY.... DOGS! IF YOU TELL THEM NO THEY WILL LEARN!
2007-06-23 23:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're rather young to start becoming sexually active. I would advise waiting a few years. However if you do want to start having sex, speak to your doctor about going on the Pill, and always insist your partner wear a condom to protect against STDs. By the way, you can get an STD from oral sex, so be careful. Best wishes.
2007-06-23 23:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
you should wait really, you are too young, and are you prepared to have a baby? if the answer is NO then you shouldn't be sexually active. Financially mentally everything... you aren't ready if you have to ask... and getting up 5-6 times a night taking care of a baby is hard work babies aren't just cute ya know
2007-06-23 23:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
14?? Oh hell no, keep the lips away from the tip. Don't do it, and you can tell your boyfriend R Kelly i said it to, cause i saw the video to pee on you. Keep talking about it but just don't do it. Wait until you are married to start giving head.
2007-06-23 23:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by ♫♪2 kids+1 wife=magical♪♫ 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter about how old you are. it is a personal thing and you want to make sure that you are mentally and emotionally secure in yourself and your relationship to take your relationship to the next level. If you feel like you are ready and that it is what you want to do than go for it. If your hesitant than you should probably wait until your more mature and able to handle it. Make sure your partner is clean though, so don't want to deal with any unplanned consequences.
2007-06-24 00:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lili 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can still get aids and other incurable STD's from oral. You should be married or at least old enough to tell your parents what you're doing.
2007-06-23 23:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by jen 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would wait. Sex is something you should avoid until you are able to take responsibility for the things that can happen from sex (such as pregnancy).
2007-06-24 13:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋