he gets out in 2 weeks and im a little excited but i've gotten use to being alone and independent i married him while he was there. we were dating for 6 years before he went but we never lived together he can be an a**hole somtimes but we get along most of the time but i honestly think its not gonna work. i really dont know what to expect and im honestly kinda scared of this sudden change ....am i just being paranoid? what should i do? anyone ever been in this type of situation?
2007-06-23 15:46:09 · 12 answers · asked by im whats up! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have never been in this kind of situation, but I believe it is understandable to be a little scared of change. I agree with the answer to follow your heart and be true to yourself. Good luck and do keep in touch and let us know how things are going for you.
2007-06-23 15:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. It is going to be very life changing for you. You are used to everything being in its place and doing things your way. Not to mention independence is a wonderful thing! Just be patient, (somewhat) understanding and take thing one day at a time. Just remember, if things don't work out, you are under no obligation to stay with him. Good luck!
2007-06-23 22:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Uhg....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most don't work in this manner for many reasons. That is one.
It will be just a strange for him and he has been with men for so long, he will be hard to keep home. Will his previous loser friends then come to hang out at your place? Will he go back to what put him in jail? Job?
Good luck, but the odds are against it working.
2007-06-23 22:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to need you now more than ever so I say get some counseling and pray for each other while attending church.
**His body might be hard in all the right places so I would try to be there for him upon his release.
2007-06-23 23:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sanita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do better. Trust me.
If you truly feel and see that he has
changed for the better, then stick with him.
Ultimately, trust your instincts. If for one
second you think "its not going to work"
you've come up with the answer....
2007-06-23 22:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Chingona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dontloose heart u do one thing take honey and water daily mixed and see that he is out very fast
2007-06-26 02:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by sanjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fix him a good ole hamburger and give him some good lovin....throw on a thing and some barry white and get it on
2007-06-23 22:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Shibby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself and follow your heart.
2007-06-23 22:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by ladon67chillpill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go slowly..you both have changed over the years..
2007-06-23 22:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by john l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relaz.. u are just nervous cause its been so long... take your time.. soon u will get comfortable {}
2007-06-25 02:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋