A guy has told me he considers me to be a nice girl. He respects me and won't even send me a distasteful email. He never flirts with. He teases me a little. He can make me laugh.
On the other hand his good friend says I am a nice girl but he knows I am not innocent and he thinks I am a caring and good person. Plus he is more careful how he acts with me. But when he wants to he flirts with me openly and sends me emails sometimes with suggestive topics. He also knows how to go about teasing me and loves to make me laugh. And I think he knows it!
As far as I can tell I have always acted the same around both of them. Very shy. I don't dress so show my body off ever so it can't be a sexual attraction. I wouldn't call myself ugly but I really don't have anything to look at.
Can anyone tell me why they don't feel the same about me. They have always been together when they see me too. I am confused.
2007-06-23 15:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by h 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dont be so sure. There is a lot more to attraction than just physical beauty. The fact that he has acted that way shows he has a great deal of respect for you as a person, and does not treat you as just an object. All you did was find someone with a good attitude and respect. It would be a good idea to talk about your husband so he knows you are married before you ruin a friendship.
2007-06-23 15:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Johan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every one is the same. Some boys find different qualities attractive. I am thinking you are favoring one more then the other. Well maybe the one that you like knows the other likes you allot so he is being a good friend and stepping out of the way.
2007-06-23 15:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 09:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One is simply not interested in you and the other thinks you have potential. I'm hoping you aren't trying to get these guys attention. Just be who you are and someone will come along who takes more interest.
2007-06-23 15:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first man, finds you more like his sister than a lover and is just trying to protect you. the second is hoping maybe one day
he can get you into bed, he is letting you know little by little,
till one day you are in great need of a man and he is all you can think of(is he married).
mike
2007-06-23 16:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by mike m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm. Because not everyone thinks alike. They're 2 totally different people and think 2 totally different ways.
2007-06-23 15:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like they are just cool friends and they just want
that kind of relationship. but if you have some feelings for one
of them i think you should say something. and as for their
funny actions i think they are just being 'guys'. and only they
know how they feel and why they feel the way they do......
like i said if you have feelings you need to move on it and
do not have any regrets..... good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-24 07:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no 2 guys r the same so they feel differently bout u or they a keeping their feelings to themselves
2007-06-23 15:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by cutie4rm305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, the 2nd one is the Gem? We can't help having fun :)
2007-06-24 06:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Cheeky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different people different personalities.
different intellects.
different upbringings.
different maturities.
different personalities.
people just like different things.
_ell, people are just different.
thats whats makes everyone interesting?
2007-06-23 15:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by geekyoldman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋