Girlfriend Left Me??

Question

My girlfriend has left me after 3 years. I'm a lesbian and she said she didn't want us to be together because she didn't think it was right anymore. Meaning, she thought it was a sin what we were doing. I love her so much and I can't stop thinking about her how could she say and do this after 3 years. She told me that God gave us a "Conscience" and her conscience was having doubts about us. And she was afraid for both me and her. Although she "says she is afraid", she asked me if we were to see each other years from now could we get together. That confused me. But I don't know what to do I feel dumb.

I can't help who I am. I love her she is basically the only woman I've ever loved. I don't wanna hear "any" preaching about what the bible says I believe in the Lord. He knows I believe in him. And I don't think no human being on this earth can judge me or tell me what I shouldn't do. I'm me and I love myself just the way I and if these feelings should change then oh well. God knows whats going to happen before I do.

Do you think its right for us to still talk to each other? or should we stop communicating because I still have feelings for her.

Answer 1

Dear Sexy A,
She’s the one that has left you. She doesn’t deserve the right to just pick up again “years later”. It’s her loss girl. Even if it is you pain.
Right now you NEED a good cry… And a hot bubble bath. If she’s not home by the time the bubbles go flat… It’s time to move on and find someone that LOVES you.
It’s disgraceful to think that the CHURCH of the loving God has so socially, mentally, and verbally abused the LGBT community, over who we love... That this woman has been driven to that sort of action. [Not all of us can stand up to the bullies.]
Hugs, And if you need to talk about it let me know ok?
PennyAnn

Sexy A posted: "I believe in the Lord. He knows I believe in him. And I don't think no human being on this earth can judge me or tell me what I shouldn't do. I'm me and I love myself just the way I am and if these feelings should change then oh well. God knows whats going to happen before I do."
THANK YOU Sexy A! Finaly someone gets it!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

You had 3 yrs together - you will not get over it right away. She left for whatever reason she told herself or with some help. I'm not sure why she mentioned the "see each other years from now" thing - maybe just something for you to hold on to. I don't know if any of us can help you get through this - but for the most part just try to hang in there with us. Hopefully, you have some good friends to hold on to and know that with each day it should get better.
I will keep you in my prayers.

As for:

Mark-get a life: God's love is all-inclusive and unconditional!

Answer 4

I'm not going to get into quoting the Bible. We all have sinned and will continue to sin until we die, but the greatest sin to commit (although all are weighed the same) is one that you know is wrong.

You need to let your ex be. Respect her wishes. It's obvious she cares about you because she doesn't want you to die and go to Hell if you haven't repented for your sins, but she's also confused. If she's really trying to get her act together why would she ask to be with you again years down the road?

I don't know how long the two of have been lesbians but the fact that you went there is enough for the enemy. He's had a taste of your flesh and doesn't want to give up that soul.

I've digressed. You say you believe in God well pray. Ask for guidance. Ask him to order to your steps and remove the blinders from your eyes.

That's my best advise for you.

p.s. Yes, God loves ALL of us. We are His children. We're all guilty of picking and choosing things we want to apply and things we don't think fits us from the Bible. But right is right and wrong is wrong. And I'm not perfect nor do I claim to be. But what you're failing to realize is that although we sin, God doesn't love us any less, but He will chastise us. Think about when your parents set rules and regulations for you. If you break them, they don't stop loving you, but they will punish you....same difference.

Answer 5

Each time you talk it will rip your heart out. After three years to have this dropped on your door step is far too much of a scar. You take some time out, learn to love yourself again and you will be able to love another. Let her take her journey the way she wants, but this is just to much of a cruel thing to do to another, you must keep clear now, or get screwed up for ever.

Answer 6

Being a lesbian isn't a sin. It isn't a crime or a bad thing, either. Yes, it isn't common and it is different, but if that is what makes you feel right, then that's how you should be. Don't change for the sake of other people. Not even another girl. Be happy with who you are!

Answer 7

WOW babe I dont know how to answer this one at all. Mainly because the exact same thing happened to me yesterday. I have headache with crying and feel so busted up I cant eat. Feel dumb? I feel like I want to die. I have never felt so devastated in all my life. I come on here mainly to help people with things but occasionally have a go at people. But now I am totally stuck. Babe if you find the answer please tell me.

Answer 8

You can't change what people think. Whether they are right or wrong (shes totally wrong.If god doesn't want gays and lesbos, why are there in the first place? huh). If she believes it in her heart then you'll have to understand that that is her decision and you'll have to support her. I wish you the best and God bless.

Answer 9

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