The other day I asked the question, "what if, after numerous dates with a guy, that you are really liking because you click on many different levels, he tells you that he likes to wear women's underwear and is that ok with you?"
Almost all of you said no way and you would ask him to leave. Is it that he is wearing panties, or that there must be something wrong with him that he likes wearing panties. Because if you put on his t-shirt or boxers or briefs or jeans or shirt, its O.K.. Why can't he wear panties, or for that matter any other women's clothing, like pants, because they fit well or feel nice, and you couldn't really tell or couldn't see that they were women's cloths?
What are you afraid of or what bothers you about it?
Feel free to explain yourself and elaborate.
2007-06-23 13:57:02 · 14 answers · asked by GO FOR IT 6 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I've dated several girls who liked me wearing girls clothes and they would even dress me up as a girl and it was always fun, now I'm married to a woman who loves it when I dress-up as a girl.
2007-06-24 14:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that I'm not your target audience, being a lesbian, but I have to say that a guy wearing women's clothing of any sort wouldn't bother me. If he's comfortable wearing it, then why not? It's not hurting me, though I'd probably be a little annoyed if he looked better than me in my clothes! ; )
I think that most people have men-in-women's-clothes so associated with homosexuality or transgendered people, and I know that frightens/disturbs a large amount of people. I've always wondered why a girl could wear her boyfriend's boxers, but a boy couldn't wear his girlfriend's panties (y'know, if they fit and all).
I suppose men feel uncomfortable with other men who wear women's clothing because they feel that they, being men, are supposed to be masculine, and wearing women's clothing would be like a throwback to their masculinity. I really can't think of why a girl would dislike it... I suppose it's just something that's bred into people at a young age. You have images of what people are "supposed" to look like, and if someone doesn't fit into that cookie-cutter shape, you don't know how to deal with it.
I know that I'm especially tolerant when it comes to gender/sexuality and things like this, so I just can't see what the problem is. I'd love to hear someone give me a logical argument as to why they couldn't be with a man who wore women's clothing.
2007-06-23 14:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sara H 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My wife has, what I think is an outdated view. Most cross dressers want to do it some of the time...yes they may feel girly / pretty...etc etc but the point they are still men, who wanna satisfy girls. Many girls are turned off by this, but how many girls would like it if society deemed that girls could only wear skirts and dresses...but never trousers or shirts? Not many I bet. I know there are 'womens trousers' and women generally look really hot in them, but that does'nt mean the men that fancy them are gay, so women who love their guy should'nt feel they themselves have lesbian tendencies because they like a guy wearing womens clothes. Such clothes feel gorgeous, otherwise men would'nt try them on. I don't think thongs look good on guys...just certain things should be left be, but the choice at least should be open to guys without fingerpointing. It probably looks weird to some if it is a man dressing in womens clothes (but still looking like a guy) bu if he tries to look really good as a woman, it's a different balpark. I appreciate ladies will have a tough time being with a guy who wants to do this, but if you really love him, you'll make it work without belittling him, or compromising yourself. I know my wife is very feminine but prefers to wear trousers...I rib her about she should wear skirts sometimes but she don't. That's her choice - but I too should have that choice I reckon!
2007-06-25 09:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by jonoxk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like Sarah H's answer and I too am very tolerant of homosexuality--although I am NOT gay---I know many people who are and I love them to death.
A thong??? Probably wouldn't last long---- right ladies????
But I can't say that it would really bother me--I guess I would really have to be in the position or predicament.
Whatever is comfy-----especially to BED--- sleep You know???
I love wearing a man's big shirt---I do feel sexy---and BOXERS are the best to sleep in. Not to mention sexy lingerie----but personally if it's too "whatever" I usually change before sleep----That's just ME!!!
2007-07-01 12:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by luvbooksswak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just picture your best guy mate in a ballerina tutu. Mm, very graphic, quite funny, but not quite acceptable..
But he could actually. It would shake me a little bit, but then again so would a girl wearing my brother's boxers.
So either way it's a little disturbing at first.
I guess you just have to get used to it.
2007-07-01 05:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by volume.10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they say that when a woman is wearing your clothing its sexy and he may think its cute. If you came home and he was wearing your thong then you may think he is a little fruity(mind the words people Im just telling it like some people think it.). But I like to tell people "whatever floats your boat".
2007-06-23 14:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mellow_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We want masculine men. Men just seem funny and feminine in girls clothing. Girls look fine in guys clothing because they're just baggy clothes - things we wear to bed or at home.
2007-06-23 14:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by angela 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's cute when
little emo guys wear tight
girl jeans. :]
2007-06-23 14:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well bcuz gay guys wear womens clohtes! and u wouldnt want to discover ur bf to be gay! dats y and it jsut looks weird i woauldnt want my bf in my thongs
2007-06-23 14:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by nastia 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋