he was getting out and having fun while you never get out and are stuck home with the kids? My husband say he works so hard, he needs to have more to life than just work. What about me? I am confined to my home with 3 kids. I never get a break. He goes out quite often and justifies it with his having to work while I stay home. Like I really have a life??
2007-06-23 13:29:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh, by the way, I purposely put my question in P/S section knowing how many users may answer.
2007-06-23 13:30:03 · update #1
As a mom your job is 24/7. Even if he works 60 hours a week, you're still working LONGER hours without a break, lunch hour, or weekends off. You need to hire a sitter and go out for a pedicure asap. He's acting like a caveman. I'm married with 3 kids. My husband cooks, helps around the house, feeds/diapers kids, stays home with them so I have time to myself. He knows a happy Mommy means a happy home, other wise I'd kick his @ss and never have sex again.
2007-06-23 13:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Certainly, dear child. You have every right to some "you" time. Don't let your old man BS you. He's just gonna have to watch his own kids ,and not just once in a while.
I'm a guy and I say don't listen to his excuses. Such a hard worker as your m8 should be able to hire a sitter and take his sweet baby out once or twice a month. You two may also want nights out with "The girls/The boys". Then you watch the kids for each other. Fair is fair!
Go get him, girrrrl!
2007-06-23 13:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it totall b/s. You work hard if not harder than your hubby. Has he ever tried to stay home for a week and take care of his three kids alone like you do? With house work and everything that it takes to raise three kids you desirve a night off at least twice a week. Why dont you tell him to stay home and you will be the one who works outside the home. See how fast he would like that idea. grr that just make the red come out in me when a guy says something so extreamly stupid.
2007-06-23 20:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 00:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by sherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very angry. I know it might sound tough, but I'm sure you have a strong relationship together and you can talk to him. You should express this outwardly to him. Maybe find nights where you can go out alone with just him on "dates". This may help the situation, helping you both get out of the house at once and having time to have fun without the kids. This is SO important to remaining not only together, but people who still love eachother. It will remind you of why you were married to begin with.
2007-06-23 13:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by matt 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
okay well here's a spot where i'll be serious..yes i can be.
see you sound kinda like my wife. but not toward me-she often hears about stuff like this from other women...ya know i have to say i agree. I spend all my time with my wife and kids. heck i love that..but then again I got all of my going out out of the way when i was younger..i used to dj and all over the world at that! so i've gotten tired of the clubs and stuff scene. now i just love being with the family and coming home after work
2007-06-23 13:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's an *** for justifying only his free time. One morning when he is still there (on the weekend of course) come out ready to go...tell him you are going shopping and flat leave him with the kids all day. See how easy he thinks that is when the day is done. Staying home would be justifiable in his case if you had nothing going on....but you have the 24/7 job that is thankless.
2007-06-23 13:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Now dang-it, that is just not right !!
What happened to the Union for better or worse ?
Time to jerk a knot in his selfish tail,
and let him know you want it even shares !!
How would he like to chase 3 kids all day
plus take care of the household.
Tell him to make it fair and stop
being a warden !!
Good Luck !!
2007-06-23 13:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by iambettyboop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that would definitely piss me off. I can understand once in a while, but not often. You need to have a break too. Make some plans with some of your friends and let him stay home and babysit once in a while. It's only fair. You should also try to find a babysitter and the two of you should have date nights and go out together.
2007-06-23 13:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I'd be pissed in your place!
Makes me wonder what else he does to you. Sounds like a one way relationship.
I think it's best if husband and wife can have some fun together. Also good for one parent to take one kid out and have some individual time.
I would not put up with his behaviors and belief system.
You have a voice; use it. If you are afraid to speak up, my guess is you would be better off without the jerk.
2007-06-23 13:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by hunter621 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋