Do you ever judge others before you get to know them?
2007-06-23 13:10:37 · 33 answers · asked by Lea 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Thank you for your honest answers!
2007-06-23 13:14:54 · update #1
I try very hard to avoid judging people.
When I was teaching, I tried to run the test on myself, "Would I be treating you this way if you were any other color?"
Reading questions on Yahoo! Answers erodes the determination to greet everyone with a smile.. It requires all the self-control that I can muster to avoid screaming at some of these people.
Part of the torture is that one reads the same questions over and over again. Every day we meet these 12 to 15 year old girls who think that they might be pregnant and are afraid to tell their mothers about their 18 year old boyfriends. It's painful.
When I read these piles of words with no capitalization, no punctuation and no sentence structure I just feel disrespected.
That's all I want to confess right now.
2007-06-23 13:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every human judges before they get to know the person. Its a lie when they say no. Everyone tends to do it. Dont worry there is nothing wrong with it. But one thing that everyone should do is get to know the person who one judges.
2007-06-23 13:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by LadyHazmat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i dont think you can meet anyone who doesnt, just because someone doesnt say anything outloud or to anyone else, im positive everyone casts their own judgement, whether it be a homeless person on the street or a celebrity ( but those are the most obviously judged people i think) its almost human nature, because thoughts on others are made out of judgement, not all judgement is bad though
2007-06-23 13:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Chunkyman38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I read somewhere that someone judges whether they like a person or not within the first 13 seconds of meeting them.
2007-06-23 13:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is judgmental to some degree or other.
Its part of human nature. Its also part of survival.
You have to be able to make judgment calls based on limited information in order to be able to function.
This is reality.
2007-06-23 13:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. But, I am working on not being so judgemental, at least not before I get to know a person.
2007-06-23 13:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i try not to. if i do i try to think of 1 good thing about that person---i know that every one is different and half the things people get judged about isnt their fault.
2007-06-23 13:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure do and 99 out of a hundred Im correct in my judgements
Im a people reader and nothing gets by me....
2007-06-23 13:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by evon stark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS A GREAT MAN ONCE SAID DONT JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER
2007-06-23 13:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by I'm a monster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time. Usually correct but occasionally I change my mind afterwards.
2007-06-23 13:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋