2007-06-23 12:30:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
love is hell
2007-06-23 12:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the 4 answrs from the beginning down. What do you mean solution to love?? Either you have been hurt or lack of love from some source. Love is a beautiful thing alll around us not only with people but all Gods creations. Take time to cultivate the love inside of you and than love will be there. There is no fear in love...Love wisely see the redflags before you begin and than you will not need a solution to Love because it will come from within you. Love is the laughter of small child. A beautiful sunny cool day taking walk and going to a store. Love is found by hearing the birds early in the morning love is there when your down and friends and family support you why do we need solutions to this kind love?? Love is freedom to be and to do and when you love & another loves you you hope for growth with each other and the world around you...Love is the solution there can be no other :)) Good luck and Lots of Love :))))
2007-06-23 13:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rita 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been working on that.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-06-23 12:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Since love is not a problem, it needs no solution.
2007-06-23 12:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by gldnsilnc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The solution is love. It is not a problem, it is an emotion to be felt.
Peace.
2007-06-23 15:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I'm not qualified but I will give my theory. It giving, recieving, complimenting, encoraging, sharing, communicating, compromising, touching, holding, hugging , kissing, allowing space and just being available to listen and or share but a delicate balance is what is hard to find. Buy a plant. It needs air, water, good soil, food, sunlight, and talking to but to much of any or the lack there of it dies by over or under exposure. I wish you luck, ask elderly couples who have spent their lives together fo over forty or more years, Seperate them first and ask keeping each of them blind to the others answer and then ask them together what does it take. record your answers and filter out truth from your reality.
2007-06-23 12:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Grateful Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean, how do you find a mate? That's not finding love, that's finding a person. There's many solutions to finding a person, but only love can find you. You can't go find "it". It just has to happen. You can help it along, by making good choices, but none of them usually involve bars. :)
2007-06-23 12:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For it to have a solution, love would have to be a problem.
It's a gift. It's a choice you make. What problem?
Swimming is letting go the the edge of the pool and learning the water will hold you up. Love is letting go of your ego and learning life will hold you up.
First time is sure scary, though.
2007-06-23 12:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Philo 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I was not aware love was a problem, I always though the lack of love was the problem.
2007-06-23 12:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by pat 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋