I am not pregnant and I have just started having sex. Any reasons why this would be?
2007-06-23 11:00:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's definitely not psychological because I'm a very sexual person.
2007-06-23 11:04:50 · update #1
Its not my abs and we don't have STDs
2007-06-23 11:47:06 · update #2
it's possible that you have a short vaginal canal, and if your man has a long penis, he could be hitting the cervix. this can be very uncomfortable, so you could try positions like you on top, where you have more control, side by side, where penetration is not as deep, or doggy style, but ask him to be careful since this position allows deeper penetration. if these changes don't work, you may need to see a doctor, because sex isn't supposed to be painful.
2007-06-23 11:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by ccMarie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem on Monday night. I've never experienced it before and have been having sex for 6 months. I've always enjoyed deep thrusting so it was a shame to experience pain in my lower abdomen. The next day I woke up and had to continuously go to the bathroom, even though I couldn't. I had a UTI and that could possibly have caused the lower abdominal pain. I've also been having an awful lot of horrible cramps lately so that could be why as well. My mom also told me if you have a tipped uterus then it could cause deep penetration to hurt. In any event, tell your partner that you are having pain so that he doesn't keep doing it. Definitely go see a doctor. Make sure you're using the bathroom before and right after sex so you don't get a UTI and have to go on antibiotics like me for 10 days. If the problem persits you have to see a doctor. Hope all goes well for you!
2007-06-23 14:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by kaw0410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your man is a little too well endowed... It could be hitting your vaginal walls or he's at the wrong angle pushing too hard. Try another position and tell him to take it slow and not "ram" you. I've experienced what you're talking about.
Besides vulvar vestibulitis, other conditions can cause pain during intercourse. If you have this complaint, see your doctor, who will first rule out yeast or other infections and then investigate other possible causes.
2007-06-23 11:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by ☆Bombastic☆ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it might just be the nerves in that area being rubbed you know? in the flesh being pushed around causing soreness. If you really think its your ABS then maybe you are really working to get the best out of your sex and using those muscles.
2007-06-23 11:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Male16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am about ready to start my period and have sex then I get even worse cramps, don't know why.
2007-06-23 11:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by ~jeweler babe~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uncle Tom's answer is frigging hilarious!
2007-06-23 13:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by DaisyO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different reasons. to deep or rough. you may have been constipated at the time or had a lot of gas.
2007-06-23 11:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just probably going to deepor hitting the wrong spot. I've had that before.
2007-06-23 11:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its what happens when you first start, i remember when my girlfriend felt that same way for the first few times but then it went away...
2007-06-23 11:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try empting your bladder before sex. that might help. or try another position.
2007-06-23 11:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by the_monamayfair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋