"Hi, want to be friends?"
2007-06-23 10:45:10
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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This CAN be a dangerous thing to do! That's why so many people, old AND young, come up missing! That being said, you would do well to consider the following BEFORE embarking on the project you're proposing.....:
(1) Make sure your motives are more than just 'sexual' in nature! For instance, are you attracted to him PRIMARILY because he is good-natured, humorous, knowledgeable, interesting, positive, compassionate, etc?
(2) Observe this 'stranger' long enough to see if he [emotionally, verbally, or physically] abuses members of your sex when they are in his presence (also if he speaks abusively and/or negatively about his absent 'friends, companions or others.')
(3) Find out if this 'stranger' has friends that you know or that you might be willing to approach (in public) to find out more about him.
(4) Armed with knowledge gleaned in items 1 - 3, above, meet him in a public place along with a friend of yours and introduce yourself to him (or, with your friend you have with you, have HIS friend that already knows you introduce you AND your friend to him). You need AT LEAST one friend of yours (and preferably a third party besides him) present during your first meeting. DO NOT get alone with him during this first contact OR on the same night!
(5) Meet him at least two more times with your friend and in public places before even considering being alone with him! If he is an up-front guy, he won't mind these precautions, should he even recognize them (there's no need to tell him what you're doing to insure he's ok!).
(6) Start your first few dates with him, if the two of you seem to be hitting it off, in public places and be sure to be seen by one or more people who know you (and him, if possible) so there will be witnesses that you met him.
(7) For your next twenty or so dates, make sure SOMEONE knows you are dating him & where you're going and when you expect to be back BEFORE leaving on ANY date with this new 'friend!
The foregoing and any other special precautions should be taken ANY time you get interested in a possible friendship or love interest with a 'stranger.' (Relatively inexpensive background checks can be done over the internet, and they can POTENTIALLY save your life!)
Keep these things in mind and, with divine guidance, you'll be safer and happier!
Good luck, may our Creator guide, love, and protect you always.........................
2007-06-23 19:32:07
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answered by Samaritan 1
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Why would you want to make friends with a "stranger". A stranger is someone you don't know, therefore you should be careful about getting too close to someone before you know them. If you mean that you want to be friends with someone you know, but who doesn't notice you, then you need to find something you may have in common and use that as a place to meet them along with other "friends" so you can get to know them better. If you mean that you want to get to know someone who you don't know very well, the same rule applies. Friends are people you know well and consider trustworthy. You shouldn't be making friends with people you don't know...get to know them first.
2007-07-01 12:46:38
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answered by Kevin S 7
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F-R-I-E-N-D-S Well you make friends by being polite shaking their hands saying your name asking there's hanging out........ummmmm people may be a bit thrown off if you just ask them to be your fren :)
2007-06-23 17:50:33
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answered by Chrys 5
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Just tell the stranger that you want t be his/her friends
2007-06-23 20:43:18
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answered by Forgettable 5
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Just go up to him and simply say "whats up?" or just say like anything about the weather, or like find out if you two have anything in common
2007-06-30 20:21:12
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answered by yesi 2
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bump into him and say sorry and strike up a conversation! Or just say, "hi!' or smile and flirt with him across the room!
2007-06-23 17:46:00
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answered by bubble 2
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What is a Frens????
2007-06-30 01:30:38
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answered by JW 1
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Ask him about his hobbies what does he like to do? If you like golf and he likes golf ask him to go play golf.
2007-07-01 13:30:01
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answered by Anonymous
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just be happy, dont be all embarressed, its fine to make new friends.=D
2007-06-23 19:42:45
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answered by Gloom and Doom™ 4
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hey whats you name
2007-06-24 13:10:42
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answer #11
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answered by kaitlyn w 2
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