2007-06-23 09:43:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I've tried everything, it's really really really hard to quit! I just feel dirty when I do it but it feels GREAT to do it.
I'm a week masturbation free and I hope to have quit for real this time!
For one thing, I got in a fight with a great friend of mine and I realized that masturbation is gonna ultimately make me lose her because it takes time from more important things - that's been the biggest one.
Two, get out. If you start to masturbate - LEAVE THE HOUSE. Go anywhere. Just get somewhere you can't masturbate! Call a friend if you can't leave. Anything else but masturbating!
Three, if you start to masturbate in bed at night, I've found Purell hand sanitizer is a good deterrant. No guarantees this is safe, but it works for me. Keep a bottle by your bed at night. When you start to masturbate grab a nice big handful and coat your penis and most importantly your balls with it. It will burn like crazy for a few minutes, especially on the head of your penis and your balls. Long enough that you try to get your mind on anything else! Again, I can't guarantee that's safe because I'm not a doctor, so ask your doctor first. I found this out by accident because I tried some to get rid of a smell down there cuz' I'd been sweating and it burned really really badly and I realized that burning would be perfect when I started to masturbate. Oh, and it does make you smell much nicer down there too :)
Finally, if you're a Christian, pray. Pray that God will release you from the bondage of masturbation.
God can get us through all things, this is a really horrible addiction to have, I know. You're in my prayers,
Mark
2007-06-23 10:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Surfin' Hawai'i 15 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way is to find something to do that will help get your mind of masturbating. You can hang out with friends, probably outside so you won't have anyplace to privetly masturbate. And another thing is slow down. If you do it once a day, then do it every other day, and then after you feel the desire to do it only every other day, then go to once every four days, and so on until you are ready to go slower. Try it, it will work if you have good self esteem.
2007-06-23 16:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by thelighthousefreak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard isn't it? Okay, think about how it is a selfish act, it doesn't feel good anyone but yourself. Have your last time and from then on don't look at anything arousing and just don't do it. If you ignore it, after a while you will just be used to it and won't give it any thought.
Good luck.
2007-06-23 16:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Male16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put a tight rubber band around the end of your penis. For pete's sake if you don't want to ejaculate, don't masturbate.
2007-06-23 16:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop if you wanna stop
2007-06-23 16:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop it!!!
2007-06-23 16:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by $J =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋