a man or men in the past have been so bad to you that you accauly beleave most of us are not good for any thang. I do admite that i to was very angry with women but it was cause of being lied to , cheeted on and other bad thangs from my past. also having wemon at work male bash and having no choice but to listen to it didnt help. I now want to not fill like im the enimy and get a better understanding so that i can adress the issue when it ever happens again in a positive way.
2007-06-23 09:08:08 · 11 answers · asked by wanting to know 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
wow, lots of good ansures here thank you all for giving me some thangs to give thought to. and by the way to some of you i am not closed minded or i would not be seeking to change my way of handling the question i asked, i also am not looking for ways to make a battle with women who are male bashing, what i am wanting to do is not fill like im under attack to look at it in a better light and a lot of the ansures i got here where very good and pointed right to it.
2007-06-23 09:35:01 · update #1
I've been mistreated by men, but I know that they are individuals and that individuals to not accurately represent the entire group. I don't think men are inferior to women or vice versa. I also don't think that men as a whole are out to keep women down. It's just not true.
Unfortunately, I know a lot of men who have had their hearts broken by women. So, they distrust ALL women and treat them badly.
I really wish these people would grow up and take the time to treat people as individuals and not as just a part of a group.
2007-06-23 10:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
It's a bad thing to blame a whole set of people (men or women) for the sins of a few or one. Each person ... regardless of sex, color, etc... should be treated as their own person.
Sure, all of us women have some common traits but we are NOT all the same and those of us who are intelligent certainly know that not all men are the "same".
If you run into someone who is judgemental that way ... don't waste your time ... move on.
2007-06-23 09:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by BigBadBoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are bad, just like not all women are good. People do thing wrong cause thats what they did and not because they are a men.
I do worry that young boys will grow up with a negative image of men. This is no good for anyone.
I think its about time to change and see the positive input men have.
Men are not all bad.
2007-06-23 10:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Goodness♥♫ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's hard not to be angry at men in general, because they seem to have decided that women aren't worth caring about in general. After you hear the umpteenth joke about being female in a male office, hear yourself called a "b*tch" for the umpteenth time because you had the temerity to disagree with a MAN, or were told for the umpteenth time that the only value you have is for your body or your ability to produce babies, it gets hard to respect men. The fact that men seem to encourage this behavior in other men in the name of "male bonding" doesn't help much.
I was married for 28 years, and finally had enough. I still hold out hope that there's a good man for me, and I find it hard to believe that all men are unkind, but the older I get, the more unlikely I find it to be. I'm not bitter - just exhausted.
2007-06-23 09:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
What relatively grinds my gears is while a guy knows, yet they play dumb. Grrrrrrrr yet multiple women do no longer desire to reason too plenty interest to a concern. some do no longer desire to be viewed as a drama queen so flow away it to you to convey it up. good success with that... X P
2016-10-03 00:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have a tendency to live in a fantasy world, they can blow things way out of proportion and they can hold onto things for eternity and if a man makes a simple mistake a woman will make it out to be the end of the world. But, unfortunately...we need them, love them and want them. You just have to accept them for what they are and learn to deal with it. The best thing to do when they are in their "mood", is let whatever they so go in one ear and right out through the other, give them some flowers, tell them how beautiful they are and say, "Yes Dear".
2007-06-23 09:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Red Sox Rule Biotchesssss 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Lots of girls violated by older vulgar men sexually when they were young .
Makes them want to hatchet male heads for years .
Just the price of all those nasty , nasty , pedophiles running loose .
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2007-06-23 10:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by kate 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah dude women are more driven by emotion whereas we men use logic, so a woman's emotions (past relationships) are more likely to make her judge someone or something, incluiding Men.
2007-06-23 09:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by SmokyDoggg 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
men bashing seems to be the agenda for the radical feminists who have been "wrong" by men in their personal past. so yeah, buckle up & get ready for the B.S. ride of your life X-)
2007-06-23 13:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well women my friend they are impossible to figure out. and to make it worse they all are different. and women only get mad at men that are rude and ignorant so just dont be those and your all set!
2007-06-23 09:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by Steven L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋