is it normal for me to feel uncomfortable when she tells me and my friends about it, or am i too sheltered? (i'm 14)
2007-06-23 08:42:43 · 20 answers · asked by »-(¯`v´¯)-» xox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should feel uncomfortable and you need to tell her that so that she knows that it is wrong and that you are not interested in hanging out with someone like that. I am 14 and my friend had sex and I told her that and although she broke up with her boyfriend she is no longer having sex. Which will prevent her from recieving STD's and becomeing pregnate. Tell her these things if your a real friend you will, if she is a real friend she will listen!! =)
2007-06-23 08:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is waaaaaaaayyyyyyyy to young to be having sex and you are not sheltered, you are smart. If you feel uncomfortable then you don't need to hear it. Tell her you don't want to know. Sex is for 2 people that are in love.You need to get smarter friends.
2007-06-23 16:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by ldgirlz11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not 2 sheltered,13 is very young to have sex. Im 18 now and at your age I never thought about sex,just enjoy urself wile ur so young.and dont feel pressurised in2 havin sex,wait until u find the rite person n u r comfortable.i was 16 wen i first had sex and were still 2getha afta 2 years.wb x
2007-06-23 15:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel very uncomfortable. Many teenagers have underage sex in high school, mostly when they're seniors, and people feel comfortable around them. When somebody's 13, they are much less excepted. I'm against underage sex altogether, but if your friend had sex this young, you should take her out of your circle of friends.
2007-06-23 15:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Llama Face Donkey Pie Cookie Jar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is your friend having sex at 13 anyway? and why is she boasting about it? if shes still doing it now, like with every bf shes gunna get a bad rep. im 15 and i havent had sex and i dont plan too until im married. yeah its alrite for u to feel uncomfortable but then again ur growing up so sex is going to brought up on many occasions in many conversations.
2007-06-23 15:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by iloveskaterz_duh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is defintely normal to feel uncomfortable about it (I feel uncomfortable about it and I am an adult). In this age of disease and teenage pregnancy there is a lot at stake having sex this young. I hope all of you use protection.
2007-06-23 15:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by RB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is normal. She is a bit too young aand to emotionally immature to be sleeping with guys already!! Jeeze. My friend said she lost her virginity in 8th grade and she was sooo popular [[just because all the guys wanted to do her!]] but a year later we all found out that she lied. It felt soo wierd hanging out with her...so dont' even worry about it! It doesn't make you any less of a person, and it doesn't make you any less mature. AAand your friend will probably regret giving it up so young.
2007-06-23 15:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel uncomfortable, because it seems like she is trying to pressure others into doing it. You and your other friends should make it clear to her that you aren't ready. She probably feels a little embarassed about being the only one.
2007-06-23 15:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should not feel uncomfortable but I tell you how you can get her and make her feel uncomfortable ask hella questions and make her tremble then the truth will come out
2007-06-23 15:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur reaction is normal. Its not a very great feat that she has accomplished n is gloating about it to u n ur friends. Ur friend will regret it once the finds the one for her. I would advice u not to go down the same lane as her. Save it for the best.
2007-06-23 15:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋