I'm curious to learn about the whole "downlow" phenomenon. How do men who identify as "straight" or as "closeted bisexual" (and who like to have sex with other men) meet each other?
Do they make a pass at another guy at a gym or something?
2007-06-23 07:14:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
internet, clubs, bars and other "known" hangouts
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2007-06-27 06:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way anyone else in the closet meets. I think the whole "downlow phenomenon" is just a way to point out what is true for all races. People don't like gay people, so they hide.
2007-06-23 09:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope that they have sex with each other! I have no use for a man who would marry a woman, father children, and go to church on Sunday in an effort to hide his sexuality. These men bring nothing to a Gay relationship-they can't! One of them, he was dating a friend of mine and they were having dinner at my house, had the balls to make a remark about how talented all gay men are in the kitchen and decorating the table. He never darkened my doorway again!
2007-06-23 08:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by connor g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Down Low men can find each other over the internet.
Down Low Guys who are around a person would reveal
there true desires to the person that they want to be with
but people in there everyday life doesn't know.
Some down low men will travel out of there cities to be
with other men, so no one who knows them will see them
with the person who they're with.
To me i kind of think that a closeted person is someone who isn't activity having sex and nobody knows about them. I think
once you are active you become on the down low and it doesn't always mean that you're on the down low and cheating on a girlfriend or wife. It could just be that you're single and want to be discreet about who you're messing with.
2007-06-23 07:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive found that talking to guys online first will kinda break the ice if your just curious. then if you want to meet and have sex then you can.
2007-06-23 07:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by badben123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it aint easy! ;-)
usually it requires going to a place where you know is a "gay hang out" or you do it online.
2007-06-23 07:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
craigslist or gay.com
2007-06-23 07:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋