She left me in emotional shock and depression after bailing out of marriage with a coworker. It was so unexpected and left me and our two kids in disbelief. I told her that I would have done anything. I don't want anything to happen to her but I would like to see her experience betrayl and dishonesty from someone who she thinks loves her. Shes 30 now and has a I don't really give a crap attitude lately.
2007-06-23 05:26:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I guarantee she WILL get hers.
What goes around really does come around....eventually...it's inevitable.
Bad behavior, bad attitude.....it always gets what it deserves.
Take care....
2007-06-23 05:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, what goes around comes around. She may have a bad attitude lately but things have a funny way of settling scores, real or imagined, and if you are in contact with her and still friendly, she may someday express remorse for being such a c**t. Just don't wait for it because it may take awhile. In the meantime, if you move on with your life (you should), her remorse is going to mean less when she finally expresses it than what it would mean right now - when you need to hear it. That's just the way it goes. So seek happiness in your own life just because you deserve happiness.
2007-06-27 05:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This probably won't help, but you will survive this. Not without scars and a less trustful outlook on life.
But for the sake of your kids who don't have the advantge of age to make sense of all this, you have to stay upbeat and positive about life and your wife --she will always be their Mom.
And don't worry about getting revenge. She has to live with the fact that she abandoned two innocent children and a good man. When the euphoria of her new relationship wears off, this will hit her between the eyes...
And there are good women out there. One's who marry for life-through the good and bad times.
For now, just heal...and pray. Good can and will come out of this.
I wish you luck.
2007-06-23 05:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mary L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Ask my ex-husband.
He left me for another woman. Thirty days before their wedding, he asked me to come back to him. I told him he had to break up with the fiancee, spend a year alone and working on himself and what he really wanted, and if he still wanted me and the kids to come back home, we'd talk and I would make it a priority...I wanted my kids to grow up in the same house with both parents.
Needless to say, he married the woman. Now, he complains about her to me all the time. He's stuck in a bad situation, but went on to make 2 more babies with her. He can't afford to leave her and pay child support to 2 women with his 4 kids. She'd most likely move back home to her mother's, which is out of state and he'd rarely get to see his youngest kids.
So, he's destined to spend the rest of his life with a woman he doesn't really love because he was financially forced to be a stand-up guy.
I just giggle behind my hand at the cosmic justice involved.
As for me? I found a guy who was more of a match, remarried, and, for the most part, am having the time of my life.
Tee hee hee!
2007-06-23 05:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by ann81969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That saying is so true and it will come back around for your wife. It may not be for a long time but it will happen in one way or another. Most times it is even worse. Payback is a *****. We never leave this earth until we have paid for all that we have done whether it is something that is good or bad we all have to pay.
2007-06-23 06:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who willingly See's a married woman will eventually screw her over. This I will guarantee you. Now if she is smart enough to catch him is another question. Sooner or later she will see her mistake, but for god's sake man, think good and hard before you allow this cheat back in your families lives as she more than likely will only be using you until she's able to do it again. Just my opinion. Good luck.
2007-06-23 05:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry my friend, there is no doubt about it. It will come back on her 10 fold (in due time) as the Good Book says.
I truly believe you do reap what you sow, but in the end you will be a stronger person for going through this experience.
Wish her no harm,nor malice, it will come.
2007-06-23 15:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is realizing the mistake she has made to abandon her family for a man who was willing to participate in an extra marital affair with her...she probably realizes it is only matter of time before he cheats on her...yes what goes around comes back around and she's going to see that very soon I think.
2007-06-23 05:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I know it hurts. But you can't make a person want you. And if she left it is very possible that she will be back. Because she has to see it for herself that this person don't mean her any good. And she needs to be with her family. Just keep praying there is a god and he do answer prayers. Good Luck.
2007-06-23 06:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by tessie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes trust me my now exwife and i were having problems and i felt i was doing all i could just to get her to spend time with me and show me some affection,and no not just sex.Well another woman came along promising me the world and i left her and moved in with the girlfriend.You know what happened?I lost my job,my wife,my home,the girlfriend ended up kicking me out leaving me homeless and pennyless.and now im living in a extended stay hotel until i can get back on my feet.Did i deserve it? you bet i did and i regret it everyday and its something ill have to live with the rest of my life.
2007-06-23 05:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by catfishhunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will probably most likely regret what she did or he will do to her what she did. But don't wish for that. Don't ask for those things.
Instead, pray for her. Ask god to help her realize what she has done and to realize how important her family is. If you like also ask God to reconcile your marriage and bring your family back together.
I am telling you from my own experience. my husband left me and our two boys because he said he didn't want to be married anymore, later I found out he had been cheating on me...I am not going to tell you that I was nice about it. i was angry and asked God for a lot of bad things to happen to him. Mostly for him to cry and suffer as much as I had been doing for months.
Eventually i felt better and I took a different approach to things. I just asked God to help him realize what he'd lost, to take away all the bad influence out of his life and for him to return to us.
I really love my husband and I would wanted my children to grow up with both parents in a happy family.
Things took a while, and we even got our divorce filled. When we got the final court date, my husband called me crying. He asked me to forgive him, and he accepted to go to our church for counseling.
i don't know what happened to him in all those months and I really don't care what brought him to realize all the pain that he caused but he did. After a lot of counseling and talking we went back and have been together ever since.
i am not telling you that this is going to happen to you. God might have a different plan in your life. But ask him for his help. Go to him for comfort, and ask him to help your wife.
I am sure that she will realize that the new found "love" was nothing but "lust". Someone that loves you would never want you to commit adultry, leave your husband and destroy your family.
Good luck and don't loose hope. Try to concentrate on your children and be the best father that you can for them. they need stability and support from you right now.
2007-06-23 06:04:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋