My friends parents are separated. When they were together he was cheating all the time. Now that they are separated he has not had a girlfriend.
Question to the guys
Why was he cheating when he was married but he now lives alone and has not had a girlfriend for five years?
2007-06-23 05:19:13 · 20 answers · asked by Babe K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Child, We get older and down there get weaker. Our tongue is not as rough as they were. Need I say some more to embarassment.
2007-06-23 05:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kingdomchild07 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My ex is the same. I think its a game, a thrill- how long can i do this for without getting caught- its a game of danger and passion. My hubby used to admit to doing it to make me jealous- all it made me do was hate him.
Plus girls today don't want single men- they want married or attached men because they don't want ties or dirty washing! So he's not such a good prospect now. The fun has all gone.
I would say he may have learnt his lesson but i bet as soon as he is another relationship he will start having affairs all over again.
2007-06-23 09:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a wife, or even girlfriend, gives a man an enormous confidence boost. Women sense this extra confidence and are attracted to it. Men often don't realize that it's their spouse/girlfriend making them feel good about themselves. Their ego kicks in when they realize they are attracting looks from the ladies. Then the dumb ones have an affair, the smart ones realize whats going on and chuckle at the dumb ones. So, they have an affair, wife finds out, divorce. Divorce is a real confidence/happiness killer. Women tend to be less attracted to insecure depressives.
2007-06-23 05:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by 47 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess for your "friend" it's the thrill of the chase. He was 007, sneaking around, ducking in and out of other women's beds. Now, he's single and no one cares who he boinks.
Suggestion; Tell your friend to try some other thrill seeking hobbie, ie. rock climbing, sky diving or having unprotected sex.
Or maybe, he can just around sleeping w/married women. That way he can still be callius and not give a damn about anyone but himself. Come on, is this someone we should feel sorry for?
2007-06-23 07:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by mgardnerva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is odd. Maybe he felt like he was in a groove when he was married and cheating, or as they say today his mojo only worked when he was attached. I know a lot of women will only hit on married men, so maybe he had this aura about him when he married that he doesn't have now. Then again, maybe its just karma ripening and kicking him in the nuts.
2007-06-23 05:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men want to have their cake and eat it too. You have a wife at home to cook, clean, take care of kids, love you and you can have a fling on the side where you check in when wanted. Too many men learn that you screw over a woman she moves on and you don't have a peachy life left. Those men will rot in hell. Cheat and you pay for it. Good to know he is.
2007-06-23 05:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just unhappy with his wife at the time and was looking for a way out but was too chicken to just leave.
Alot of men cheat on their spouses and then don't have g-friends when they are single. Just shows that they are chicken to tell how they feel to the person they are with.
2007-06-23 05:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by k.ritt 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He didn't have the courage to end the marriage he was not satisfied with, so he cheated making his wife do the dirty work of kicking him out. A bit if a coward, I must say.
2007-06-23 05:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by stedyedy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It`s not because he doesn't have a girlfriend that he`s not getting sex. Men cheat for sex not cause they need someone`s company. So now he has all he wants, no wife to deal with and unattached sex.
2007-06-23 05:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because most decent women would not want a man who cheated on his wife. They know that is exactly what he would do to them.
2007-06-23 05:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by Krinta 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋