We are asian indian and our culture is conservative. We are planning to go beach, but i can't wear two piece bikni with my family. My husband cousins are hypocrate. Their wives wears deep tops, but if somebody else wears than they make joke of them. If they see a girl wearinfg a bikni or swim suit they say, look at them. Are not they are satisfied with their wife or their wives don't fulfill their fantisizes. I know it's cheap , but i myself don't know how to handle the situation without going into fights.Please advise
2007-06-23 05:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it were me I would not go. I choose not to place myself in situations where I dont feel comfortable being myself. People like that are not worth my time.
2007-06-23 05:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lorelei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great Comment Jan eThats Wha tI Always Try To Say To My Fr...Wait I HAve No Frinds Nvm But Yeah Do Wha tU Want Dont Let Others Control U U Only Have 1 Life u Can Only Mess Up 1
2007-06-23 05:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute...you cant wear a two piece bathing suit to the beach but you can have an affair with your coworker? I'm sorry since when is infidelity conservative? Although now I do understand why you don't want to tell him...
as far as the swimwear...wear what is respectful to your culture and ignore your husband's cousins
2007-06-23 05:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to wear a two piece go for it. Ignore them if they are critical of you. Your culture needs women's liberation.
2007-06-23 05:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear the swimwear you feel comfortable in and be completely indifferent to other`s comment. When they make nasty comments it`s to get people`s attention so don`t give them that satisfaction.
2007-06-23 05:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is such a problum dont go .
2007-06-23 05:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by henryredwons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋