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example - a man stopped by my house for directions 2 days ago and told me i had nice "breasts" and made a rude comment.

example- at least 3 times a week i get yelled at or something - while pumping gas,going in a store....

i work in a loan office,at least 3 times per week i get hit on - and most of the time it is in an inappropriote way.

my thing is,WHY? why do men think they can comment on a womans looks or stare her down ....... i know all men aren't pervs,but for the love of god - that is not the way to get a girl to like you. i would understand if i dressed like a total prostitute or something,but i don't - im not the most modest person on earth - but i just get soooo mad at these jerks who think they can do whatever. and if you smile or try to be nice - they take that as a signal or something - no,men,its being COURTEOUS.

uggggggggahhhhh!!!!!

2007-06-23 03:43:51 · 30 answers · asked by ♥livingdeadgirl♥ 6 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

30 answers

I am guessing you are you one of those super nice people? You're going to have to toughen up. Particularly if this is happening in a business setting. When they start hitting on you, advise them that they are behaving inappropriately or ignore them completely. They are demeaning you and trying to take control of the situation by saying rude things, you need to establish the control. It isn't easy, all women deal with this because we live in a male dominated society. I am so sick of the good ol' boy mentality!

2007-06-23 04:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Your Mom 6 · 1 0

You are not the only one, it happens to me all the time, I find it very annoying. Example- I was walking in to blockbuster with my 6 yr old son, and some high school boys were coming out of Burger King, and started yelling things about my @ss, and whistling.... I had on regular shorts and a t shirt. My son was like, what are they yelling at, and I said I didn't know. Very irritating. Happens while pumping gas, or walking through a parking lot. I've learned to just take it as a compliment, and leave it at that.

2007-06-23 03:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Ok the first thing about you, is that you are probably very attractive. The second thing is that you are probably not aware that you are attractive--which is even more attractive.

Second--men think about sex an average of every 6-8 seconds according to studies--you happen to be in the line of sight for at least 6 seconds.

Ignore them--then they think that you are a stuck up beeotch and they will go away. I do it all the time--it works!!!! I would rather them think that, then to have to deal with unwanted advances---I won't ever see them again, so I could really care less!!!!

Don't let them get to you. Stay true to yourself, and be beautiful---you have earned it!!!

2007-06-23 03:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 1 0

Well in the most cases that kind of guys are losers and they don't look pretty well.Well if it is worth of saying there also some girls who are doing the same things, before one month I was on the job interview and I hated it. The girl was trying to flirt with me, she was asking private question,like do I have a girlfriend and that kind of things. But you must also know that we are not all like that, I wold rather die than comment a girls look on the street. If you are mad maybe you should start to practise karate ,so you can kick anybody who bothers you, ; ) take care of yourself

2007-06-23 03:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ivan 2 · 1 0

If some said you were very beautiful, would that be perverted? Seriously, I apologize for all the men in the world. Remember, much of what we do is based on hormones, and we don't always understand it either. But I would suggest that some of those rude guys gets lots of girls, while the polite nice nerds can't score a date, and respectfully that does explain much male behavior.

2007-06-23 03:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1 0

Sorry dear, but those aren't men. Those are jerks. Some men are nice guys. The ones you mention are "jerks". Every guy will look at you - its biological - but the nice ones will not make rude comments - they will say "Thank you and good morning", or something like that.

2007-06-23 03:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 1 0

You are completely right, a man can admire a woman without making rude comments or staring. I have even see guys with their girlfriend or wife making comments or leering at women. Talk about disrespect.

2007-06-23 03:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mav 6 · 1 0

OMG!, I couldn't help but to laugh when reading this, I can relate on so many levels, I hate when I walk near a groups of guys and one of them say "damn, she thick as hell!, (keep in mind they damn near scream this and everyone around turns and looks at me weird) that is usually followed up by the ugly one (not the cute one, who is still lurking back sneering at me), coming up to saying "ay cha gurl, why don't you give me them digits" and don't reply in a way they deem disrespectful, if you do, they usually say "well f*ck you den, I ain't want them digits anyway, old stuck up b*tch" which usually ends up with me telling them off and them walking away like dogs with tails between their legs. I got tired of it so I tell them I'm gay (I'm not) before they open their mouths, so they would leave me the hell alone.

2016-05-18 02:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

I'm lucky I guess. All the men I'm around are very respectful. Even strangers are usually nice. There's a pervert here and there but I don't pay them any attention.

2007-06-23 03:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Most men are pigs..it's that simple. They talk to my "chest" all the time. I've gone as far as bending my head over to meet there eyes and reminded them I'm up here. Mind you I'm married with 4 kids and ALWAYS have at least 2 of them with me.

2007-06-23 03:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by pamomof4 5 · 1 0

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