I know some people aren't going to bother reading a lengthy post, so I'll post random facts: (He is English btw, as some of the terms relate to British terms.)
1) He's in a long-term relationship with me. I'm half Chinese/half White.
2) He is attracted to minority girls, but I'm the first non-white girl he's dated.
3) He WAS a skinhead and had skinhead friends. However he told me it has nothing to do with race,and it was a working class thing? He told me he wasn't racist and that it was just a blue collar thing.
4) He uses the n word and he calls Indians "Pak*". He also calls Eastern Asians "ch*nk*es". He also calls me one, but I call him "l*mey" in return. (Usually we call each other that in good humor)
5) He beat up his white friend for using the n word because he says he doesn't want anyone calling our future child names.
6) When he was young, his best friend was Indian.
So what is going on? Racist or not? I'm a bit confused because he seems "all over the place" in his ideolog
2007-06-23 02:06:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I realize I posted a similar question before, but I want more responses!
2007-06-23 02:09:30 · update #1
He also told me there was a difference between a n and a black person. He says n isn't a race term, but just refers to uneducated people of every race.....wtf is he talking about?
2007-06-23 02:11:48 · update #2
Then he tells me he hates white people the most out of all races, but most of his friends are white....wtf?
2007-06-23 02:13:40 · update #3
he may have been but maybe he has changed...............
2007-06-23 02:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Most white people in Britain no longer see "N****r', "P**i", and "Ch**key" as racist terms, and use them in everday life because they are so widespread. Yet, obviously, it's not wise to use them around anyone who'd be offended by them.
Being a skinhead has nothing to do with racism, not for about 30 years now. Loads of lads have skinheads, just because they like it like that.
He's not racist at all, just a young English lad.
2007-06-23 02:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by benjamin_83 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Essentially what it boils down to is if he thinks some races are more superior to other races. Although he uses racially offensive terms that doesn't necesarily make him racist - it's not the word but the sentiment that does.
But if he doesn't want your child to be called names, then perhaps he shouldn't call other people names.
2007-06-23 02:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mordent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I beleive he is racist. He just doesnt realize it or wont admit it.
He has violent tendencies so before you marry
him or have children I urge you to follow your gutt instinct.
Always listen to that because Its your "highest self"
giving you inner guidance. If you didnt suspect you wouldnt be asking so you probably already knew in your heart he is.
No matter what happens you will be O.K.
On to bigger and better things with your life............
Good Luck
2007-06-23 02:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kid is really mixed up! dump him!
2007-06-23 02:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care if he is thats his closed minded attitude
2007-06-23 02:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋