if i asked him about his cheating.he said that he want2 leave me then what can i do .i ll wait till good time come or talk with him ?or leave him bt i love him ssssooooo much and my son also love him.please give me good suggestions bcoz it is upto our future
2007-06-23 01:56:18 · 17 answers · asked by areman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your husband is cheating on you, then you need to do something about it. If he says, he will leave you IF you ask him, this is not a very good sign for you at all.
Don't be a "doormat" in your marriage where your hubby can do as he pleases as you live in fear of asking a question.
2007-06-23 02:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK girl... I´ve been there... done that.. And you know? The most important thing is to know the reasons... I think all man in some way (and also woman) are cheaters... any way, the most important thing is as I said, to know the reason and to really KNOW if he LOVES you....
There´re so many ways to cheat to the one you love... You could do it just by thinking of someone else, or by going out without with some other guy, or girl, or by making out with some other guy but, lets get serious... the thing is that you´re not being loyal to the one you said you loved... so .... do you hurt the most important person in your life... the love of your life? ..... We are human... we do wrong things. and we can be forgiven... but the inner reasons must show out before you think of a solution to it... Talk to him girl... If he leaves it is for the best.. and if he stays , then you must fight with everything to make it work out...
good luck....
2007-06-23 03:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by hechizada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you love someone that doesn't love you? He certainly doesn't love and respect you if he is cheating! I have to mention that he's certainly not looking up to you if your letting him cheat. That might be why he's cheating.
Get the hell away from him, no matter how much you love him. He told you he wants to leave! You can't live like this, especially with a child.
Get some self respect, pride and value for you and your son. You know what you should be doing. WELL DO IT!
2007-06-23 02:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sleeps with another woman 3 or 4 times a week and sleeps on the couch at home.
He doesn't care you know about this other woman.
Get some pride and get away from him.
Why do you let him humiliate you so?
You say you love him so much, but he doesn't love you, or want to be with you.
Don't take this degrading treatment.
Leave him now and hit him with a truck load of child support.
2007-06-23 02:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mr R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is would you be willing to forgeve him??? if you are then keepmoving on...get some good self help books do some praying and try to save you marrige look for things like what is wrong and what you can do to save it...get a new dress cook a nice dinner...and give it a try ...if it works cool if not at least you try!!!!
2007-06-23 02:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by morita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man and my wife did the same thing but like a dumb s--t i just let it go without talking about it thinking she would stop,but no she asked me to get out.So in other words you have to say something and work it out.
2007-06-23 02:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your son then you will stand up for yourself. Children see everything, they take it all in..and if he sees that his father is allowed to treat you like a doormat and that you have no self-respect he'll have that same view towards women. He should have atleast one good rolemodel.
2007-06-23 02:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is difficult to understand, so I take it, English is not your first language? Anyway, if it just a fling, or a one night's stand, which does usually mean nothing, it's up to you if you are prepared to put up with it? It is usually a person way of saying we are finished, without actually saying it. See a good lawyer.
2007-06-23 02:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lifeisgreat! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sooner or later it had to be resolved and the sooner the better or it might get worst and affect your marriage.
seems he's threatening you and being your weakness?
talk over it and its no time better than now. it takes 2 to make a love flourish and happen and if a herat changes . . . its all gone?
thats life?
2007-06-23 02:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by ragin_silence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he is cheating leave him. You do not deserve to be anyone's second fiddle. Make arrangements on how your son can see him
2007-06-23 02:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by zhebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋