Do men in there 40's like?

Question

to be chased or to do the chasing?

Answer 1

Men any age like to be chased.

Older guys will do a lot less chasing than younger guys. Lack of desperation? We get more mature and not worried about having a date every Sat kind of thing. Plus we don't run as fast so we are easier to catch.

Old Guy

Answer 2

Chased.

Answer 3

A little of both I'm afraid. However the married man who cheats will more than likely enjoy the chase better than the capture. Being chased is more of a turn off as there is a risk factor that the man is scared of. Any man wants to be "in charge" of the chase and opens up a bit better to the woman when he is the one who realizes his catch. Just my opinion. Good luck.
P.S. Don't chase me, I'll outrun you! (maybe hehehe)

Answer 4

It depends on the man, of course. Everyone's different. Some are switch-hitters and like to do both :-) And age is not a factor, really. As far as such things as what you're asking is concerned, people are pretty much the same no matter what their age- as they tend to like the same things across their entire lifetime. And older guys, I would think... pray that they'll be chased! It's nice to know that someone's interested :-) So... chase already!!!

Now... if you're talking about chasing someone... with a knife or a gun, well... I don't think that anyone likes that! LOLOL :-D

~ Jon

Answer 5

That would depend on if they are old fashioned or not and if they are a player.

If they are old fashioned they want to do the chasing as do the players.

Other then that I have found men in there 40's don't mine one way or the other, they are flattered if they are being chased but also like to do the chasing themselves.

Hence the old saying " Girl chases boy until he catches her"

Answer 6

I don't like being chased by any woman. I prefer to "pursue" a woman who might be interested in me. If I get a simple hint that she's not, I'll back off and/or vanish like ether from her life. Usually the women who chase men are the ones that men don't want to chase...no offense to anyone.

Answer 7

It depends on the man. One might expect a man in his 40s to be at a place where he wants to settle down, so he no longer enjoys a game of cat and mouse. But, not every man fits this mold, so the game of chase can be fun - both as the chaser and chasee.

Answer 8

the older they get the less hard they like to work for it because it gets old always chasing. But when you actually start dating then he will like to chase a little.

Answer 9

I'm 45, been single for 5 years. I don't chase anymore. I think it depends on who is chasing me, how I react.

Answer 10

I say they like both I do. Mrs. Lady if you like what you see and know what you want????? Then if you have to chase him then do so. An older gentalman is respectful. If its not for him he will put you down easy. DONT sleep with him until you know of him. If sex is all he want he wont stay around to long. Older guy's love's a Lady or Woman in the streets, And his (girl-do anything for her man) in the bedroom. But you have to get his heart first. Really that goes for any ages. We as humans have forgot how to really be in LOVE. Take ur time and get to know him as a man, and what his God has brought him through. You be amazed at what an older Gentalman has been through.