Four weeks ago yesterday I lost my 12 year old son.
I take each minute as it comes and I pray a lot.
2007-06-22 23:52:02
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answered by Me 7
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Yes, several. It's ok to have so many thoughts during a time like that. There's no wrong or right way to think or feel. It's just your way of processing the loss. It gets easier over time.
2007-06-23 00:01:00
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answered by collynn 6
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Yes and you don't or should I say can't deal with the thoughts because you never ever get that person back and there is nothing you can do that could have prevented it.
2007-06-22 23:53:03
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answered by Bru 6
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My grandpa died last summer. To deal I usually just layed in my bed and looked at the ceiling and just thought about it or wrote about it.
2007-06-22 23:52:55
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answered by The Big Cheese 3
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My sis in law, she past away from cancer in Dec. I was her care giver..I spent a lot of time with her, laying in bed and just talking about her fears and dreams..I watch someone being unborn. Your are born as a baby and grow up to be an adult..I witness an adult going back to being a baby. I watch her being unborn. It was the most rewarding feeling I ever experience. She taught me a lot about death, and how not to be afraid of it. She always said I was her rock. She was my rock. I have beautiful thoughts of her. I am sadden of her death, but the thoughts she left me with will always be with me with fond memories.
2007-06-23 00:03:30
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answered by china 4
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My uncle got stabbed to death one night and my dad was down in florida with me talking to the cops about it and my uncle lives in indiana. The way I dealt with it was just thinking of all the happy times or if that doesn't help just think about something differen't that's happy?
2007-06-22 23:51:39
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answered by midgetjdr9 2
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Yes, I have lost friends and family.
My mom is very ill.
I tried to stay busy and think that for whatever reason God had it was time for that person to rest.
Best of the day wished for you.
2007-06-22 23:54:01
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answered by sideways 7
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Both of my parents. It was hard to deal with but, you just remain strong.
2007-06-23 00:01:20
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answered by *♥♫Hedy♫♥* 6
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Yes...my dad...you deal with it the best way you know how...you continue living your life ...you look forward...but you never forget...you keep their memory alive in your heart...
2007-06-22 23:51:30
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answered by wojjy 6
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my grandfather recently...i try to focus on other things
2007-06-22 23:50:19
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answered by k i w i ♥182 7
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