here's the situation... i dont know what happened but he just left me without a single word...and i love him so.. until now I kept on sking myself WHY?
2007-06-22 21:21:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Stop viewing your heart as broken - - - you are a whole person and most likely flawless focus on your own strengths and go to great lengths to remind yourself that YOU are not the problem, most likely the other person has some problem they are unwilling/unable to explain to you. Sometimes YOU must be the strong one. They left, fine, get on with your life. Your heart is Whole and Healthy. Be positive it will be positive.
Peace.....
2007-06-22 21:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just time can help. Take it day by day. Fill your time with things you like. Going out with friends. Watching a sunset, the birds flying around in the park, a good movie. Watching Children play, saving a cute shelter puppy, and doing things that you have always wanted to do will all help the time pass. And you may even find that you like life without that guy!
He's not right for you- you deserve lots better! It really does not matter "Why" anymore. Do you really want someone who could do that- Just walk away? You would worry the rest of your relationship if you ever went back to him that he would do it again- and he could. Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior.
Get that book "He's Just Not That in to You" that Oprah is always talking about. It sound like it could help.
Hang in there. Things will get better.......... Lots of us have been there and we know.
PS: After my heartbreak I met the cutest, kindest, most wonderful man and married him a few years later. We have been together for 27 years now and are still very very happy. And I am greatful that other guy- who I never think about- left me for no good reason other than he was stupid!
2007-06-22 21:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a great question, How do I deal with a broken heart? Well I took the self destructive route I took drugs and got drunk and slept with weirdos... and in the end.. I still missed my loved one.
I don't recommend my chosen route, unfortunately I think the only way to deal with a broken heart is to do it minute by minute. Try to stay on a good path, make a plan about things you've always wanted to do and go for them. Don't..... Try not to slip into a depression, because although you love him your life doesn't end with his departure.
Keep your chin up and if it was meant to be he'll come back.
2007-06-22 21:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by visceraldoll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't heard anything from this person?
I'm really sorry about this - I imagine you are just beside yourself.
Don't beat yourself up about this. He is a coward for just walking out without any explanation as to what happened. The two of you will be the only ones privy to what really happened, but I don't think you'll ever get the answer you need without talking to him.
2007-06-24 05:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Done 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me a few months ago and i understand that it is hard. I also kept asking myself why but you know what in the end, you'll end up thinking that its not you who lost something, it is him who lost everything. You love him and he left you, he won't see such love ever again.
Take your time and move on. Such guys are not worthy of your true love.
Wish you the best.
2007-06-23 00:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Avril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for that. A good advice would be to focus on other activities or a while. I did volunteer work after I broke up with my friend. It made me realize that other people have a lot more reasons to suffer and that I am a lucky man.
2007-06-22 21:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Rotizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time it isn't "you" the only thing i could recommend is time. that's it. tell him that you think its all messed up but you still want to be friends, don't talk to him a lot or anything crazy cause that'll push him away . just now that if its meant to be it'll be. and move on i know its hard, but you may also need a rebound date or whatever to let yourself know that you don't need him anymore and that you can live with out him. ive been in your shoes before, (with a woman,lol). just time heals all wounds.
2007-06-22 21:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by bosox4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that.
Unfortunatley a broken heart takes time to mend along with the brain. Your hurting and need time to sort things out.
It would have been nice for the guy to have told you why.
Good Luck, tbg
2007-06-22 21:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have a good cry, then give yourself time. Remind yourself that if he'd do that you don't want him anyway. Then, when you are feeling better, start again.
2007-06-22 22:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by Thrice Blessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋