I once heard it said that the very reason you fall in love with someone is the same reason you fall out of?

Question

love with them, in your experiences, do you think this is a true statement?

Answer 1

Yes!..I read that too!
Experts claim that some of the little habits & quirks that people have can attract us to them but it backfires later.

They say, "All those charming little things we fell in love with in the beginning are the very things that drive us nuts later."

It often leads to a break-up.

I found that intereinteresting, when I read it and when I thought about my exes, I found it to be true.

Fascinating, don't you think?

Answer 2

Usually, in my experience, the main reason people fall out of love is that when the things we "assume" about a partner (when the realtionship is fresh) and we fill in the blanks for in a positive way do NOT turn out living up to our lofty expectations...we becoe disillusioned and feel betrayed.

In reality, our own misconceptions betray us all.

Answer 3

i heard about it before and i am told we fall in love because we have FEELING for somebody and we fall out of love because we don't have that FEELING anymore

yes it is true

Answer 4

No. I do believe though that if you have a person who is done wrong to someone in the past, that they are more than likely going to do it again.

Answer 5

Could it be that familiarity breeds contempt?

Answer 6

No.....