2007-06-22 19:03:20 · 13 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats great. HOW DO YOU KEEPT IT FROM SLOWING DOWN? HOW DO YOU KEEPT IT FROM SLOWING DOWN? HOW DO YOU KEEPT IT FROM SLOWING DOWN? HOW DO YOU KEEPT IT FROM SLOWING DOWN?
2007-06-22 19:08:52 · update #1
what kind of an answer are you looking for here kids,jobs,bills,mortgages,stress all these things play a part in your marriage i've been married for 18yrs and we don't screw like rabbits any more if thats what you mean the sex we do have is better than it was when we were young and horny constantly its of a better quality.there is no one answer or solution to your question you will get out of your marriage what you put in to it.you want to keep it from slowing down get off of yahoo and put the energy you waste here in to keeping things going in the bedroom
2007-06-22 20:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by windwalker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, for some couples, not all, it does slow down. Like my life for example. I've been married for almost 3 years and have one 2 year old daughter, and pregnant 6 months now. It's 2:15 am right now, in Toronto, where I live and what am I doing? Trying to make myself tired by staying on Y.A. b/c I just can't sleep next to my hubby and don't want to make love cuz the sex isn't that interesting anymore! There's no fire left in what we once had in our sex life so most days I end up sleeping on the couch. I've tried councelling with hubby but nothing is working and now we only have sex when we really feel so desperate that we go to each other for it. Otherwise I wish so bad I had someone more fullfilling but infidelity for me is a major sin, so I suffer. I hope you understand all I wrote but this is just my perspective and to answer your question, some things people do to keep the sex lively is to communicate with each other of what each partner enjoys and flirting helps even if you're married. Too bad these things didn't work for me, maybe they will work for you.
2007-06-23 02:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Windflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't have to. You have to realize that on this site, you hear more of the couples with problems, not from couples who are totally happy.
We've been married over 17 years, and the love has just grown and deepened throughout the years. We still have lots of fun, and feel just like we did about one another when we were first married - and act the same, really. It's all in having the great relationship with the spouse - you get to know each other inside and out, know that still with 'just one look', you can melt the other's insides, and get all lustfilled!
2007-06-23 08:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, well, well am not sure how to answer this questions of your but still I will try my best--------yes sex does slow down a little but if you still wanna avoid happening this it pretty much depends on men we women are sky to bring out new positions and expressions but if their man do bring in new positions with all new environment attached with new lingerie once a while than you can prevent of losing the slowing on sex after marriage.
2007-06-25 12:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is common for married couples to say that sex has slowed down after a few years especially when the couple has kids but the good news is no it dosent have to ....try to keep the spice in your relationship if you see things getting too boring try new things like role play' dress up, sex toys,go to porn shops together, watch tapes , make tapes and have sex in places other than your bed ...the kitchen ,living room,bathroom ect. but whatever you do keep it up they say that married couples that have sex at least 5 times a week have a longer lasting happy relationship...oh yeah dont forget the slow music champagne and roses!
2007-06-23 02:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by im whats up! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO THE ROMANTIC THINGS THAT IT TOOK TO GET HER. KEEP in mind, with job pressures, housework, kids and senior parents care, these things can knock the sex drive out of a woman.
Slap her butt lovingly as she prepares dinner~~a light kiss on the neck would be nice as well.
Give it all the mushiness you can muster. If she love you, she will come around. If not, find out if she is feeling well, if she needs to be checked hormonally. Good luck
2007-06-23 02:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 13 years but there is no signs of slowing down. I feel like we are still in honeymoon.
2007-06-23 02:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by abetdgreyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the sex exciting. Don't let it become routine, don't schedule sex. Continue to do the things you did while you were dating. If you guys use to sneak out and do it in the car or in the park continue to do that. Continue to date even after you get marriage
2007-06-23 02:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by girl_syx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you want want to be satisfied, I have found that sex is in many forms not just physical if you truly have a life connection, but the physical stuff if totally unrestricted and adventurous
2007-06-23 02:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by grannygrancarrol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are 15 yrs together next month and haven't slowed up at all.
2007-06-23 02:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋