Should I be worried about our relationship?

Question

Hypothetically speaking...say you were in a long distance realtiionship for a few months, the first month, everything is good, everyday conversations, I get the number one slot on his my space 's friends' list(hehe) and then we see each othere, go out, have sex, ..and everythings good, so another month goes by, but then there's really no plans to see each other, his myspace friends list is hidden, however he does have pictures on his page (saying I'm the love of his life) so you can't see any of his friends.. yet we still talk everyday, but are made to see each other again, I mean I know he's going through problems financially but should I be concerned, is it an excuse or am I worrying about nothing?

Answer 1

He had sex with you, and obviously you weren't that good to keep your spot on his myspace page, and he even hid it(!), so he's done with you (no plans to see you!). He got what he wanted, he never loved you, you just played along and ended up being played.
You are worrying about nothing, because there is nothing to worry about. There IS no relationship. He's dumped you!
Don't be such an easy sl*t next time.

Answer 2

His financial troubles are his own!

As far as the "relationship" is concerned, are you having fun? If so go with that, enjoy what it is. I don't get the sense this will be a long term relationship especially since it is a long distance one to begin with. Have your fun but don't pick out china patterns just yet and watch yourself (and your pocket book).

Answer 3

You got involved with an online fantasy and you used each other for sex. He's done. I suggest you get tested.

Answer 4

Its an excuse..
Don't lose your time on this guy..
He might care for you but does not look like he wants to commit..

Answer 5

leave the things the ways they are. you are pushing him against the wall......a man knows what to do when he is interested.