Couple that fights over housework?

Question

like all the time. do u think they are really fighting over housework or is it something deeper that manifests itself into something tangiable like houeswork?

Answer 1

You need a therapist to figure that one out - it could be either way. Do they fight over other stuff or only housework? Do they ever NOT fight?

If all they do is fight, housework or otherwise, then they probably need to go to counseling. If they get along great but only fight when housework comes up then maybe they need to just sit down and figure out an equitable division of duties.

Answer 2

I think housework sucks and really who wants to be doing it? But like alot of things in life, you have to. However fighting over who does what is stupid and immature. If you are worrying about the petty stuff, then something else is wrong, even if its simply you don't know how to communicate with each other.

Answer 3

yeah I think its something deeper...they are avoiding other issues , either don't know how to resolve them or one or the other isn't willing to admit guilt...so their trying to make each other look worthless and fight over housework! People, don't sweat the small stuff, resolve the big stuff and get on with enjoying life.

Answer 4

Couple who fight over household have too much ego problem between them and fighting over stupid things like household stuff helps them vent out their hatred toward each other.

Answer 5

It's ALWAYS about something else! You've got it spot on!

Answer 6

HUMMM COULD BE, OR SOMEONE THINKS THEY ARE TOO GOOD TO CLEAN UP AFTER THEMSELVES! SO CLEAN UP YOUR MESS LEAVE THE OTHER, AND ACT AS IF YA DON'T SEE IT!