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In order:

Great sex
cook
clean

But from the sounds of it...the married women only give prude sex, rarely cook...and clean? well maybe thats a stretch.

So how do women expect the husbands not to get some side action?

2007-06-22 18:47:38 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

20 answers

Most women start tapering you off the instant you get married and you're down to about twice a year the second year. Cook? Surely you jest. There's not a woman alive that could bake a loaf of bread. All they do is eat and get fatter and fatter. A few will clean because they have nothing else to do.

A good wife would be bisexual and bring something home once in a while. The rest doesn't matter enough to worry about and if you want the job done right you'll have to do it yourself anyway.

2007-06-22 18:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 5

I think you are pretty on the money to what guys expect from a wife among other things not in your top 3. Women may beat you down but reality is that we have lists too and i think it's perfectly normal to live by such lists as everyone is different and has different needs. I think people need to look deeper into the top 3 you mentioned and see it as being more than you say and the reasoning behind why your list (and i think most mens lists) are compiled of what seems to be 3 shallow things on the suface. Good sex is very important on both sides, hell i have gf's that have never had an orgasm and i don't know about you but sometimes life is so full on with marriage and kids that there are a few times when an orgasm is all i have to look forward to at the end of the day. Theres an old saying... "the way to a mans heart is through his stomach", this is very much the case in my home because when i put that evening meal on the table, i just know theres a bear hug and a kiss around the corner. Now the cleaning goes without saying, a mans home is his castle and i would think something wrong if my man was happy with his castle resembling a pig sty and i do see something wrong with women who have no pride in their homes. I think all in all, what you speak of are the underlying fundamentals of a man going to work everyday knowing full well his kids are in the safe loving hands of the one thing he knows would be hard to replace.... hence making him want to be giving as much as he gets. I had 3 things on my list
1. A man who doesn't mind hard work
2. A man who is happy to allow me to be a fulltime wife and mother
3. A man who needs me and who's life i can improve by being part of it.
I found him and how lucky was I that he had spent 10 years looking for me : )

2007-06-23 02:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Shazela 3 · 1 0

You twisted image of what makes a good wife is probably the reason why you attract women who live up to your expectations. You've fulfilled your own prophesy by living your life according to your beliefs. No wonder you probably have cheated. You expect your wife to give "prude sex, rarely cook...and clean." Change your image of women and what a wife should be and you'll attract what you believe. Until then, you'll never be happy with what you find and you will always be tempted to (and will) cheat.

2007-06-23 02:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by microwaved-brain 3 · 0 0

Hey I cook and clean for my husband everyday and still find time to bone my husband. I think if the chick doesn't satisfy her man in the beginning, not much is going to change. But as long the relationship is fun and open then I think there is hope for the future. But then again some guys are just assholes and still go out and get some side action.

2007-06-23 03:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by bekapv_219 3 · 2 0

I am sure that you as well are lacking in some areas so don't be so hard on your wives boys. Women are not machines. Treasure what you have in your life. What if your wife thought about getting some side action? Talk to your woman, take charge by telling her she's pretty, taking her to dinner and buying her thongs, red pumps and a whip. Let your wife be the "other "woman. You don't have to spice up a marriage by adding another piece of meat to the grill, just throw some more spices on what you are lucky to have.

2007-06-23 02:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by moeschk 3 · 0 0

For your information - and my husband will verify. He gets mind blowing sex (from me), I cook fabulous, and the house is always clean. I can guarantee that no "side action" will even come close to what I offer. It is a two-way street at our house. I reap many rewards as well. If you have two people that both put in 100% then you don't even have a desire to look elsewhere.

2007-06-23 01:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany L 4 · 3 0

Husbands who need side action aren't husbands, they are liars and cheats. A good wife is someone who stands by you, who understands you, who wants to make you happy. However you have to be worth that effort. Anyone who sees a woman's value in her sexual performance, cooking and cleaning skills needs to not get married. You can hire a cook and a housekeeper and pay a prostitute.

2007-06-23 01:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 6 0

Just remember what's good for the goose ,it's good for the gander.
what makes a good wife in your opinion ,may not be another man's opinion.
But trust me ,if you help with the cooking ,and the house cleaning ,i promise you will have the best sex .
you know what makes my husband the best husband ,when he helps me cook ,or rinses the dish's ,and loads the dishwasher ,or makes me a cup of tea when i don't feel good ,and sets my coffee pot every morning .
that's why he walks with a smile on his face .get my point Now?

2007-06-23 01:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

how many times have u gotten married to know that? and the list that u made is the side action u need to add more to that list or u wont get married cuz ur actually just expecting that from a women and that is all your going to get.

2007-06-23 01:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by mexdimpls 2 · 0 0

A real man who truly cares for and loves his wife would see more in his wife than great sex cooking and cleaning.

2007-06-23 01:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by hourglass_beauty 4 · 3 0

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