2007-06-22 18:47:09 · 13 answers · asked by grandma0618@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't trust him enough to believe him when he tells you that he's divorced, why do you want to be with him?
2007-06-22 18:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by ncgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-06-22 20:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the court house where he said the divorce occured the records are open to the public
2007-06-23 17:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by will_955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would like to know where the divorce was filed. It should be on record there. Or you could ask for a copy of the divorce decree.
2007-06-22 18:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just have him show you the paperwork showing the divorce decree. You should not be embarrassed to see it. Or play stupid and say you are curious what it looks like.
Or go to your local town hall and ask the town clerk how you can find out if someone is really divorced or if he is lying. They will know.
2007-06-22 19:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
birth certificates, deat certificates and divorce decrees are public record, ask where hes lived and where he got married and divorced in normal conversation, then go to that town or go online to vital records and order a copy if they have it you'll pay like 9 bucks for a copy, On a bigger note if you have doubt and dont trust this man, and you asked and he said no, why are you checking up on it and why are you with him?
2007-06-22 18:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should be on record at the court house in the city where they got the divorce,i believe its public knowledge,you may check into it.
2007-06-22 19:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANY DIVORCE IS A MATTER OF PUBLIC RECORD. GET HER NAME AND LOOK THEM UP IN THE LOCAL COURT HOUSE THAT LIVED UNDER.
2007-06-22 18:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are concerned and you would like to see his divorce papers.I showed my girl because I could tell she was in doubt.
2007-06-23 04:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not bother. If he says he is "divorced" or "separated" without giving you details, he is cheating on his wife.
2007-06-22 18:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by d_cider1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋