i am 27 yrs of age ,a mom of 3, been hitched for8 yrs . my husband goes out all the time with out me (big pool player). but i am left at home weekend after weekend all by myself. should i get mad.i know hes not cheating on me he just loves pool so im not jealous.it pisses me off so bad to be left at home all the time. i have aked him not to go out with out me, but he dont care about my feelings so what can i do.stay at home and just deal with it . he want watch the kids one night and let me go out for a while.
2007-06-22 18:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by DOCIE S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can sometimes go together, or one weekend you go out one he goes out, get a babysitter. No you shouldnt get mad me and my hubby go out with other couples but i have my girlfriends we go out sometimes have a drink or to and he has his brother but we dont go out that much apart but we have 3 kids, but we have two babysitters on call a primary and a back up. If you know he isnt cheating then dear dont get mad, we all need friends other than our spouse just try and go with him once in a while or you go out with your girlfriends too. Him not caring about your feelings is a biggger, you need to nip that in the bud, talk to him about it dont nag or complain and point all the wrong her did or does, stick to your feelings and what makes you feel that way and tell him you love him so much remind him and of course mention good things about him so he doesnt get all defensive - being inconsiderate is a huge problem in a couple.
2007-06-22 18:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems fair but really what you want is your husbands attention. You are pretty young for all those kids and having been married so long, you sound tired.
Hire a babysitter. Go play pool with your husband. Tell him you would like a nice dinner and then you will play pool with him, or let him play and you will watch him. If you are a smart woman, you will bet something on the game, or at some point during his game, whisper in his ear that you forgot your panties. Good luck.
2007-06-22 19:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Take Him Somewhere! Then Have Like Somebody Ask You To Go To A Wedding REcepetion or Some Party Then Show up And He Wont Think its His! Lol Good Luck
2016-05-18 01:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you need to let him know how you feel about being left along, i would get a sitter and go with him
you can at least be with him. but every weekend he going
out, that a big much, and i would not take that, because
you need to get out and enjoy your self as well.. also
he might be doing more then playing pool.
2007-06-22 18:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a sitter and find out what else he is doing besides playing pool. You don't know what he is doing when you are not there.
2007-06-22 18:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can either tell him to stay home or not come back, then leave him , or you can start going out too. get a sitter and do the same thing to him that he is doing to you. He should be going out with you more than he is going out without you.
2007-06-22 18:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is stopping you from going with him to watch him play pool?
2007-06-22 20:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you find your own hobbies and interest and start doing things on your own. Don't you have girlfriends that you can go out with. Trust me, once he see's that you are doing your own thing, he will start paying more attention to you.
Good Luck
2007-06-22 19:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by purrlywhites 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can't you get a babysitter and go with him? Don't you have family or friends?
2007-06-22 18:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the immortal worlds of the world's greatest philosopher, "Porky Pig",
TH-TH-TH-TH-TH-THAT'S ALL FOLKS!!!!
2007-06-22 18:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋