it's fri night 7:30, is my hubby still at work or is he just saying that? what are the chances?

Question

i actually encourage him to go out with the guys but he refuses. he says he would actually prefer to go out with me. we really haven't had a chance due to our financial situation and our 2 kids. he doesn't work at one place. he's an install tech for a communication co. i call his cell and no answer. there is no set time that he comes home. he comes home when he finishes his job.

Answer 1

Maybe he is out with mine...Mine is about an hour and half late home too...maybe we are missing out on something...Oh well...forget them..lets go party!

Answer 2

Well I've frequently worked late on Friday's, weekends, holidays, you name it. Especially when big deadlines were looming. If your husband's an install technician it's not unusual that he would be working odd hours either. Usually systems need to be shut down to perform installations and maintenance and businesses prefer to do it during off hours after everyone else has left for the day. That way no workday productivity is lost. And many electronics and computer rooms are electrically shielded, too, so cell phones won't operate inside them.

Sounds like you guys need the money so instead of mistrusting your husband try showing him some appreciation for working all that overtime for his family. I'm sure he'd much rather be home with his wife and kids than at work on a Friday night. If it happens often you might ask your hubby to phone you during his breaks just to let you know he's ok and tell you when he's coming home.

Incidentally if you really suspect something you can start keeping track and writing down the hours he tells you he's working. Then compare it to the hours reported on his pay stubs. A substantial difference might mean he's up to something.

Answer 3

Hi M n M..Has he gave you any reason not to trust him? Maybe check one time with company.Then if hes truthful,tell him and apologize.Never do it again .A relationship you have to communicate and trust. He wont go out ,rather go with you.I would say he is telling you truth..He don't answer cause hes busy working. Chances are slim and none that he is messing around.

Answer 4

Sorry, it sounds fishy to me. I was married to a philanderer for 20 years and he had so many excuses that made no sense to me. and that was when he was working in-town.. he worked out of town and country85% of the time. Go with your instincts... You didn't say how long you have been married to him but if you feel like something is wrong.... it probably is

Answer 5

is it a new pattern of behavior, or is this something new? how does he treat u otherwise, if he treats u the same as he always did than he probably isn't cheating, if he is treating u badly, or ignoring u, u may have a problem. usually when a man is cheating there are alot of other signs that u can see and feel. but with his kind of job, i don't think its unusual for him to be working late.

Answer 6

Well it depends on your husband and his routine. Does he give you reason to doubt him.? Can you call him at work? Does he have a cell? The chances can go either way.

Answer 7

If he's like my man, he's at work. My hubby works all over the place, so there is no set time that he is home either.

Answer 8

well if he was suppose to get off at five..maybe not, but u never know..was this the first time he has done this? if it wasnt..maybe u should drive by and see. maybe hes at the bar..if he is..u should tell him to tell u that..and that he shouldnt lie to u about where he is..trust him, but dont set ur self up to be lied to.

Answer 9

Is he only supposed to work until five? ehh.. i doubt it

But are you sure he just didnt want to be "nagged" by you and wanted to go to happy hour with the guys from work?

DO you let him have freedom?

Answer 10

It depends on the routine. Call him at work if you can, if he's there, he is at work. If not, he has explaining to do.