i want to get pregnant but i wasnt to wait on havin sex what should i do?

Question

i want to get pregnant but i want to wait on havin sex what should i do?

Answer 1

neither... keep going to school, and think about this later.

Answer 2

Don't have sex, don't get pregnant YET. Wait until you are in a loving relationship with your husband, have finished school and had some experience being you before you take on the role of being a mom. It's forever and it is life changing. There's alot of things you can't do and experience when you have children so if you don't do them while you are young and child free, like now, you never will and over time you will resent that child that you wanted so badly that you threw you life away. Take your time, slow down. Most times when a young girl your age wants a baby it's because she's missing something in the relationship with her parents. Maybe they are overprotective, nt loving, just not there at all I don't know your situation, but I bet you there's other underlying reasons for wanting a baby that you yourself need to address. Babies may be cute, but there's no way you can totally be prepared for them...and I personally would never want to try to raise a kid without my husband. It's insaine at times and I appreciate that I have him to count on.

Answer 3

u will always end up making your own decision about sex. but trust me, sex is a big deal, and the way people and the media try to make light of it makes the matter even worse. explore being a teenage, enjoy your freedom, make those mistakes that will prepare u for the adult world. a baby is a responsiblilty u can not take lightly. dont let others tell u how u feel (even if u have to lie and say u did when u didnt). live life and have sex and a baby when u know you can do it all by yourself (it may end up that way if u dont think about it seriously). good luck

Answer 4

Well the easiest way to get pregnant is to have sex, so if you want to wait then wait for the pregnancy too. It is important that you be ready for all of it. Besides, since this question is in adolescent, how old are you? Do you think you are ready for a baby and why?

Answer 5

How old are you? Get more education so that when you do choose to have a baby, you can buy the cute little outfits, Michael Jordan shoes, and give your kid everything he needs. You can't do that now. So wait and go to school.

I know it seems hard to do that, because you really want a baby, but the time isn't right. My daughter was really lonely in the same way, and she got a little bitty kitten. For someone to cuddle and love on, kitties can't be beat.

Answer 6

Since this question is in adolescents I'm guessing you are a teenager? PLEASE!!!! wait until you are older and able to take care of your baby. I had my son at 16 and it is very hard still. I love him and he is the joy of my life but I wish I hadn't had him at such a young age. You won't realize what all you are giving up or how much it means to you until its gone. Live your life, be young and have fun right now. Worry about having kids when your older. Their is so much out there that you can't do when you have a kid. My son is my life and I wouldn't change that now but it will be so much easier when you are older and really ready for a baby.

Answer 7

Oh boy. You want to get pregnant but you want to wait on having sex. What should you do?

I think you need to speak with your mother and ask her about how a baby comes into the world!

Answer 8

Your in the teen section, wait atleast 5 years get yourself some education or skills so you will be able to support having a baby in the future.

Answer 9

you should definitely wait until you finish school & college if you want your child to have a good life and you need a good job & money to do that. raising a child isn't all fin and games if that's what you think. it gets really expensive also. wait until you finish school and find the person you are truly in love with to spend the rest of your life with. i hope you make a good decision.

Answer 10

this doesn't even make sense...

you're obviously not ready to have sex... and yet somehow you think you're mature enough to have a baby?

get over yourself. there's plenty of time in life for that, trust me. wait until you know for sure you're ready to have sex (you love the guy, the guy loves you, you're in a COMMITTED relationship - hell, maybe even married or at least engaged) before even THINKING about being ready for kids... also, have a job, an education under your belt, and financial stability. emotional + mental stability helps, as well...

Answer 11

You do not need a baby at this stage in your life. You need to wait and get an education (which you definitely need). A baby needs TWO parents who are devoted to each other first, stable and have a home to bring it to......