my husband 56 is trying hard to pressure me to have child,though we never have sex(once every 4 months) he may have some problem for his age in ability of sex.I dont mind because i dont want child at this age. But he is thinking test tube and tends to try to force me. can any doctor do so on me against my will? I am so scared.
2007-06-22 11:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by Carol H 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It's pretty hard for most women to conceive by any means at age 44. If you go with him to talk to a doctor and tell the doctor you are not interested in having a baby, I think that will pretty much finish that topic.
2007-06-22 12:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no a doctor can not do anything to you without your consent. Dont fear. Maybe if your husband wants a child so bad you could look into fostering a child or too. Just a thought. But you cant be forced too have a baby. Good luck
2007-06-22 18:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cassie V 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm assuming you live in a developed country and not one where men have complete control over the woman. Your husband cannot pressure you to do anything. A Dr. will not do anything like that against your will. Why do you stay with your husband? It doesn't sound like you have a good relationship at all, especially with him trying to force you to do something against your will. You are still young enough to start your own life and find a partner who will respect you, not bully you. Good Luck.
2007-06-22 18:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, of course he cannot. And unfortunately, at 44 even with IVF your chances of getting pregnant are very slim. There could be options for IVF with donor eggs if you were willing, but trust me, after doing 3 IVFs, the woman has to be completely motivated to take all of the shots required. It is hard work, and a process that can take months, so your husband needs to respect your wishes and give it up.
2007-06-22 18:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by MissM 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
absolutely not! Tell your husband to back off! At your age, you have a much higher risk of having a child with downs.
2007-06-22 18:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nobody can tell you to have a child..Even at your age, if you would like to have one it would be different..It seems you do not want any, So Please don`t let others make your mind up..
It`s your body and I think if your husband would have wanted a child , he would have tried before now.......What do you think..
I think if you have a child and you`re in denial, you will probably be in denial with the child after it`s born, and you don`t want that..
For the baby`s sake..........
2007-06-22 18:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ro 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one can force you to have a child, at any age.
2007-06-22 18:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by twinkie.2006 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course they can't... no doctor can do anything to you against your will. If your husband is trying to harm you, then you should probably get away from him asap...
2007-06-22 18:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tabby 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
If you do not want to, you do not have to.
Let your husband know that you do not want to and that he needs to stop hounding you about it PER.
2007-06-22 18:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by ar_jj_peppers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well No, wouldn't that be rape?
2007-06-22 19:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by mom2ghl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋