My friend and I watched our children grow up together. One of her daughters was murdered about 12 years ago (domestic violence). The man wasn't incarcerated for the crime, but didn't get to keep the children. My friend and her husband raised the two children but she mourned the loss of her daughter. She was only in her 50's, the sorrow killed her.
Please, if you are in a domestic violence situation, remember, no matter what the person tells you ,about your family not caring for you, that you are not loved, you are useless, don't believe them. Lots of people, especially your mom, love you.
2007-06-22 10:53:45 · 3 answers · asked by kriend 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am sorry that you lost your friend.
The best thing for healing your heart is going to be time. It is unfortunate that the killer of her daughter was not incarcerated. I think that had he been jailed, your friend could have come to grips with her daughter's death. Now what you need to do is give yourself the time to go through the seven stages of grief. Keep the good and happy memories of your friend ... keep her alive in your heart.
It will take sometime, but you will get better. You will never forget the sorrow and only remember when she was happy. I know it sounds hard now, but things will look brighter.
I will add to you readers that check the questions and answers .. listen to what she says. If you are a victim of spousal abuse, your family loves you .... the spouse is the one that doesn't. Get out of it. No matter what your circumstances are .. there is help for you. If you are being abuse and you have children ... you must get them out of that situation ... the violence you are experiencing may be on them next.
Good luck and my prayers are with you.
2007-06-22 11:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my grandpa died and i am very young, i still cry about it even tho it was in december. my parents always te; me to *think of the good times, *and remember how great of a person he is. but when i feel sad i hug a special bear that my mom had got, he has a sweater of my grandpas and a hat with his picture and say "Oh Boy" because he always used to say that. you should get somthing memorable of hers to help you get through tough times.
2007-06-22 18:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by ♥LuLu♪™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could ask GOD to help you get through this most
troubleing time!
2007-06-22 17:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by genevieve10@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋