Do I have a reason to be angry today?

Question

I seem to be annoyed at everything and everyone today..I mean there's this girl in my class who's a *Beeping* whore and because she had to flirt with every guy she saw we couldn't finish our drama presentation in time. Then at my tennis class I was paired up with the WORST player there. (me, being rather good..hehe..) Not only that but my mum had to pick me up 15 minutes earlier for some stupid reason. Plus my hair was a wreck today and through out the day I had to keep fixing my mascara, but nooo, my mum thinks I'm taking everything too seriously.

What do you think? Do I have a reason to be in a bad mood today?

Answer 1

Yes, you may be cranky today.

Go have some chocolate and let the day drift away

Answer 2

no you don't :D and you mother is right..those compared to real problems are not problems at all ..just think about how ppl suffer from war ..their families die but they still never give up i once watched an interview of a place in Africa where ppl there get killed everyday !! yet you see the kids there struggling to fight..to build their future they try to go to schools without even being bothered and amazingly they always laugh !! i'm not saying don't get upset no you should your human after all :) i'm saying save it for the worst possible situation ..everything you said honestly is not considered a bad thing if it's about the hair easy done if it's about fixing the mascara it won't take long go to the bathroom and fix it i always do that what else bad player tell him/her that you need more practice and about the flirting girl is she harming you?? no she's harming herself i would pitty her rather than getting pissed off, those type of girls have no self confidence even if their beautiful and think their confident the truth is their not! your awesome good whether she keeps flirting or not if you work on your personality you will shine and your light will reflect the whole class it will make you wanted :) hope you enjoy your life.

Answer 3

Seems as though you have a personality for detail, and a perfectionist. You must have all your ducks in a row. If something happens and one of the ducks starts wandering a little too far you start to panic and fall apart.

It's o.k. to be a perfectionist, but face it ..we do not live in a perfect world and that could be a problem for one that is having trouble in going with the flow on occasions.

You can talk with your teacher and explain that you would appreciate it if you were pair up with someone else next time that took their education a little more seriously.

Hair is hair, thank God you still have your hair to fix. Many your age are not that fortunate.

Same goes with your Mom. So she picked you up alittle early. The important thing is that you are loved and she remembered to pick you up instead of leaving you to figure out a way home on your own.

It's o.k. to allow yourself to be in a bad mood unless your taking it out on someone else. But to stay in a bad mood for too long won't make the day any better. Why not end a bad day in giving thanks for what you do have and find something you like to do to relax and do it. Unwind a bit!!

Answer 4

Everybody gets in a bad mood sometimes, and every little thing is big. Tomorrow, you'll wonder why you got so mad at these things. But for today, they are issues. I'd give up on this day getting better and just be alone maybe with a book or go to sleep. Sleep is usaually the magic that fixes our mood anyway.

Answer 5

People have bad days. And you can't exactly be expected to be all smiles then, can you? Maybe you should tell the whore what you think of her. It would be a nice outlet for you and teach her a valuable lesson. Just do it in a calm manner and w/o cussing. And the bad tennis player...practice makes perfect. Maybe you should challenge them to a match out of class, just to step up their game a bit. And when they do something wrong, help them out w/o criticizing. You might make a friend and who knows, next time you play against them, you won't get so fusterated. : ]

Answer 6

I think that we can all feel that way. I am sorry you are having one of "those" days.

You can look at your day with all the negativity and choose to feel bad, or you can look a little further and find something positive.

Why are you mad at the flirty girl? Is it because you feel like she gets all the attention? How is your self confidence? You should have more self confidence in yourself.

Did you know we are our own Worst critics? I bet you just look very pretty. Your attitude is lacking a little luster, though.

Try to find something positive. Your mother picked you up and saved you from having someone look at your "bad hair" or having you to fix your mascara. Why worry about the flirty girl? She probably is not worth your thoughts. You can find someone or something to occupy your thoughts more...

Tell her you feel the need to get things done and try to redirect her. If you keep feeling negative about everything, then you are going to continue to feel bad.

You will find someone who will love you and doesn't care if your hair is perfect or your mascara is not on. He won't even look at the flirty type of girls. Some girls appear to be flirty because they are friendly. I was always friendly to people, and Some would accuse me of flirting. I would smile at everyone and try to be friends with everyone. You never know who could be your next best friend, more added to your other best friends.

It is not worth your health to feel like that. Please, try to find some positives and try not to sweat the small stuff. You are probably very smart and witty and probably have the most beautiful smile that will knock someone's socks off one day. If you are frowning, then that person may miss that beauty you shine out from within you.

God Bless you. My prayers are with you.

Answer 7

Not really - things happen and every day will be different. Take a deep breathe then go look at yourself in the mirror. Remind yourself of 5 great things about you..... Those are valuable things that should top what everyone else around you thinks or does - hope you have a better evening ; )

Answer 8

your not the only one, some have good days and some have bad days it's perfectly normal. Plus I have those days to more then once. You just have to understand that people wont know that your having that type of day and you just have to let the day go and keep reminding yourself not to curse at everyone.

Answer 9

We all have days like that! Just try not to take it out on those you love.

Try taking a long bubble bath and listening to some of your favorite upbeat music. Take the day for yourself. Sometimes we just need to be alone and let our feeling out. You'll feel better tomorrow.

Answer 10

I think you should look in the mirror and see a spoiled little girl tennis lesions! a mother who can pick you up! there are some kids who don't see there parents as they have to work all hours to put food on the table so no I don't think you have a right to be angry!!!

Answer 11

i'm indignant immediately because of fact my husband used to have a fling with this polish lady and he or she advised me that she met him final Sunday whilst we've been think to speak. he's working in huge apple and that i'm an entire time mom of our 3 daughter right here in the Philippines. it is not honest!!!