You are a 22 yr old mature young female that lives with two girls that are 20 and 26. The 26 yr old treats you like a stupid retard and a stupid little kid that knows nothing of life. YOu confronted her and she lied the first time. The second time she treats you like you're stupid and a little kid she said "I treat you like you're stupid because you talk and act like a little kid!" She keeps saying she's sorry but she goes back doing it again.
She's the onlyone in your life that treats you like you're a stupid retard or like a little kid. Everyone else thinks you have potential and is very brilliant. You go to your parents' days at a time to help babysit your neice and you hate going back,. You just moved in with her almost two months ago and it got worse when you moved in with her.
Suggestions?? You're not rich enough to easily move somewhere else.
2007-06-22 08:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by Hydra Dragon 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
The desire to move out and will to earn mjore and pains to find a better accomodation with diligence and perseverence.
That's all it takes
Have faith in yourself.
Cheers!
2007-06-22 20:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Life won't Stop Nor Should U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person is obviously affected by the 26 year old. There seems to be some sort of emotional connection between you two. If this person really played a big role in your life, it might be difficult to handle this situation. If you do not know this person very well. FORGET ABOUT THEM. Don't let people influence your life. If you are truly brilliant and have potential, find your potential regardless of what people tell you. Don't spend so much time in the house with them. Go out, find new friends. To become an adult is to take chances and take consequences. There are a lot of mean people out there in the world. If you encounter one everyday and let them get to you. Your life will be very meaningless. Find your purpose, find your goal, find your potential. Do not let anyone stop you from these things. Learn from your mistakes, and learn from hers'. Good luck!!!
2007-06-22 17:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by LLK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u try craigslist and post an ad for roommates and the price range u can afford. Everyone has options, abusers get away w/abuse because sometimes people let them do it, don't enable her behavior.
Sounds as if she has a lot of emotional baggage but then again, this is based on ur interpertation so I shouldn't judge her at all. Bottom line is, step up and be assertive w/her again, if it doesn't work then look elsewhere otherwise u'll remain miserable.
2007-06-22 15:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey...you're talking emotional abuse which is, in my opinion, one of the cruelest forms of abuse. Rule of thumb, if you could explain it this way, is that if you let her, him, they abuse you they will. Remember when we were in grade school and they made fun of something you had or something you did? Same feeling huh? This is gonna sound so weird but what you need to do is pray for your abuser everyday and every time they abuse you or even when you think of them. The more you pray that they will have a wonderful life, you gain one more ounce of peace.....really! The reason people abuse others is so they can feel grander. In other words, they put you down so they can fell "up". She needs prayers! Maybe you can read some self help books to boost your self worth and self esteem because if it bothers you when she calls you a name it has to affect these things and little by little you will start feeling "down". Don't allow this, stay away from her or just don't REACT to her. She'll be surprised by this and slowly learn that she can't boost herself up by putting you down. Good luck..............tink
2007-06-22 16:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by tink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to leave, pitch her to the curb. You could keep a list of times she does it and show her you making a note of it, then sue her for mental anguish when you get a bunch of instances, you could receive a substantial amount of money in damages. Make sure she knows what you are doing, tell her you are going to sue her, it might take awhile but I think if she thinks you are serious she will have to stop or lose her assets!
2007-06-22 18:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by samhillesq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you and the 20 year old kick the bi*ch out? It sounds to me that 2 against 1 would accomplish this.
2007-06-22 15:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by boogeywoogy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back in with your folks until you can afford a place of your own. Go to college. You're wasting your life if you're not taking care of it.
2007-06-22 15:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by pm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a place called women shelter, or u can share with a friend renting a room. and u can give tuition for extra income..
2007-06-22 15:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents, friends, or the Salvation Army
2007-06-22 15:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck. and buy a gun...
2007-06-26 14:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋