okay so maybe not excally but i'm very ticked off right now! and I don't know what else to do I can't keep waiting for this SSI **** to start coming in!
My mother gets food stamps and has her rent adjusted for her income and that is nothing but she still has to pay something! I work my partner works! We have a house with a high mortage we are not married so I can't just take his money to support my mother.. I'm bone dry! i'm doing my best efforts to stay positive and try to side with the goverment my mom isn't the go getter she use to be . my mom has no car her truck blew up she has no income minus me. She has a bad foot shoulder heart hand she can't hold anything semi heavy prior to dropping it She just dropped a cheese cake today! trying to cook food!
I know the state thinks they are helping by giving food stamps but if SSI won't give her jack.. we are fighting it this time but i hear it can take forever! I'm out of money can't start my family due to supporting her. WTF to do
2007-06-22 07:48:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
a second job is out of the question we share the one car we do not live together and there isn't room anyway small house! big payment! and it's not mine!
I feel like its' all back on my f---ing shoulders.. I"m only 28 years old I can't be going throuhg this ****!
what i want to do i can't! I want to live outside of prison..
but what are some other options.. for some extra money for her not me... I will be fine in a few months after i stop giving my money to her..
i would love to start myown family but with this on my shoulders i can't i'm too stressed and would be eatting at soup kitchens I lived that my life i don't want my kid to live the same!
2007-06-22 07:51:43 · update #1
i would love to sell the house but IT IS NOT MINE read the f--n story peeps!!
As for welfar she is on it already! hence foodstamps they won't help with anything else!!! I can move back in with her if need but then rent will go up... if she lives with my ssi will deni her even more because of the money i currently make!
I mainkly would like to know when i can start MY life... i mean i'm 28 years old can't have kids becausde of income level grew up on welfare and that 's no life for anyone to life yes it' better then death but they take more money then give!
JSUt read the hole thing or don't answer!@
2007-06-22 08:57:45 · update #2
lol
2007-06-23 16:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are giving you suggestions and you are hostile towards them. I hope you don't show this type of hostility towards your mother. Maybe some anger management classes would help.
Your mother should qualify for cash assistance from welfare. I got cash assistance and food stamps when I was waiting for my disability. As far as the government goes,they take their own sweet time when it comes to this. Nothing you can do about it. My case took 2 years till it was approved.
Stop playing the victim and help your mom anyway you can. Life isn't fair,you just have to deal with it.
2007-06-23 05:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) sell your house; if mortgage is so high that you can't afford to have at least another car , then you are living in the red. Get a smaller home where the mortgage would be cheaper for you to handle.
2) have your mom live with you. You can then use the SSi that she would have spent on rent, to hire a nurse that can work with her during the day.
Sacrifices needs to be made. If you dont have siblings to help , then you'll just to put your chin up and work it with your mom
Be glad that she is still alive. Best to give her a happy end to her life by being with the people she knows and loves than being alone with no one to help her.
2007-06-22 08:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by arus.geo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
try to apply for welfare for her until the SSI comes through. It is hard and it takes a long time all you can do is stay positive.
I agree move her in with you or sell your house and move in with her. There are hard times in life for everyone, good luck to you.
2007-06-22 08:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lori B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ted, just a simple question here. . . . did you graduate from high school? From Middle school? Your command of the English language is deplorable.
2016-05-17 21:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such is life. Just get on with it for f*ck sake.
2007-06-22 07:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Open your eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋