are crossdressers born, or do we really have a choice?

Question

Because cd's sometimes throw their womens clothes away, say to never do it again..but we do. so like murderers, priests, doctors, fighter pilots..or anything we become...is it pre-programmed? I know sometimes I wish I was'nt a cross dresser..but seem like I will always wanna be! That said I would rather be a cross dresser than a killer or soemthing like that.

Answer 1

I don't think crossdressers aren't born or really have a choice, but once they dress-up like a girl they have made their choice and are kind of re-born as girls.

Answer 2

This is a question that's been debated over so many times that we simply can't give a definate answer. I personally beleive that at least part of crossdressing, LGBT orientation, etc., is 'pre-programmed'. Some people have more choice than others, and some people have no choice at all. Just do what makes you happy!

Answer 3

Both of my parents were heterosexual, I am a male/female Intersexual / Gay, my Genes / DNA are XXXY. I was as an Intersexual / Gay befor birth, I was born with a penis so the doctor put me down as male

When we get a cure for heterosexual people to stop being heterosexuals, then at that time kids who are born with my Genes / DNA should be given the right to chose what sex we want to be.

You tell me?

Answer 4

behavier is a choice but sexual oration is not. There are reasons why we act the ways we do and some of it could be gencitcs like for example bobby is just like his dad ,he always has to have the last say. but i could be wrong but most if not all behavier's not including gay/lesbian behavier's can be changed.

just incase some one misunderstands , gay/lesbian behavier can't be changed because when they date the same sex ,being sexual is some thing they do just like straight people. The reason why i didn't include bsiexuals is because they have a choice like they don't have to sleep or date both genders.
I'm not agaisnt gays.lesbians and bisexuals

U can changed ur crossdressing behavier but u probley will always desire crossdressing,its in ur brian ,its who u are.

Answer 5

How you behave is your choice but the desire to wear clothes of the opposite sex or appear as though you are the opposite sex is born in you. It is how you are. Maybe you can control it or maybe the obsession is too strong and you cant . Personally I enjoy it and I don't care who knows
I am afraid that Diane L is completely wrong. Try reading Brain Sex by Moir & Jessel Published by Mandarin
ISBN 0-7493-0525-8

Answer 6

Well, there's always some form of choice in the field of acting on impulse, but I don't think the impulses themselves are controllable.

It's much like being a homosexual I'd imagine, or a left-hander, etc.

Answer 7

I reckon you are probably born with the desire to do that at some stage in your life but you could curb that desire if you chose, but why curb it, it's not a bad thing better as you say to be a cd than a murderer!

Answer 8

They are born.

Just like everyone else.

They may or may not have much control over the way they want to dress, but they do have a choice.

Nothing wrong with choosing to cross-dress though.

Answer 9

You are confusing orientation and BEHAVIOR.
Behavior is always a choice.
Orientation, like eye color or handedness, is a trait and is inborn, not a "choice" and does not change.

Answer 10

The only one confused is Wide Awake and others that entertain the I was born this way delusion.
Be an adult and accept responsibility.
You have chosen your dress...now wear it.