Having some extramarital relations...yeah!
2007-06-22 06:36:07 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as she is fine with it how far are you willing to travel?
2007-06-23 13:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure the reason she is cool with it is because she is also have extramarital relations and likes the way things are working out. You should invite her to join you and move your marriage in a new direction.
2007-06-22 13:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are telling her before &/or after and asking her to be a part of it and she is o.k. with it, I would have to say you both love eachother uncondionally and have an open marriage. No that would not be cheating, cheating is when it's done behind one another's backs and it is lied about. But if both partners agree it is called a life style.
2007-06-22 13:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If ur wife is cool w/ u cheating on her u might want 2 ask y. I'm thinkin that she's letting u do this b/c she's already got someone else in her bed and letting u cheat on her will justify that.
2007-06-22 13:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Misty D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope its still cheating the only difference is that its cheating with permission. If you think for one second that even with your wifes permission to do so make it okay, you are so wrong. Many would say go for it if she says its okay, I can say the same thing if you don't care if your marriage lasts or not. Do it and it will come back and bite you.
2007-06-22 13:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, if your wife is cool with it than it's not cheating. But are you cool with her doing the same thing? If so this is called an open marriage and you're in no danger of cheating.
2007-06-22 13:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's not cheating until she gets pissed about something else and decides to change the rules on your a s s. Then the stuff can hit the fan.
2007-06-22 16:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by men_so_totally_suck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is ok with it is so she can do it to . If it doesnt bother you with a man doing your wife (and probably better) hey go for it.i am sure she is..what happens though when you no longer measure up? oh well--------oh yes it is cheating
2007-06-22 13:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
correctomondo. If you aren't hiding it and everybody is cool then it really isn't cheating.
Are you cheating on a test if your teacher tells you, you can look at your notes? No
But if you were caught looking at your notes when it wasn't allow, then? Yes
2007-06-22 13:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating is to deprive of something valuable by the use of deceit or fraud. women and wives usually will do anything for their husband and bf because they lovvvvvve them. but by doing something for your husband that you would not orginally do is not talking value to yourself. Did she bring this up or you I bet you did. Its ok if in her heart she truly want to do this but God will not be happen if you persuaded her to do this with you nice charm and you know what I mean women do these things for your husband because you want to not to degrade yourselfs and do it because I love him and If I don't he might leave me the bible say fear nothing I am glad if you really have a women that truly want to do this from her heart with you not for you be blessed
2007-06-22 13:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even if she is cool with it, you are still cheating., well I call it adultry!!! Which is punishable by law, and yes cheating you, her and your vows taking in front of GOD. But hey maybe she is sick of your inmature *** and is alowing this to happen so she can slam you with adultry and take you to the cleaners in court..........AHHH TO BAD!
2007-06-22 13:48:29 · answer #11 · answered by How can I help? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋