He won't give them back since he says I am trying to replace him since I have no passion feeling for him.
2007-06-22 06:34:37 · 24 answers · asked by travelgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Explain you are not trying to replace him and ask him to join. Maybe that will spark his interest.
2007-06-22 06:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would work on the underlying problem as to why I don't have passion for him or why he feels I don't have passion for him. If I do I would reassure him if I don't I would discuss with him why. If he there is more he could do for me etc. The toys are making him feel inadequate, I would allow him to take them for now while explaining to him that those toys could make things fun between the both of you.
2007-06-22 13:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this my Xhusband would buy me a toy every christmas. At first I thought it was cute until I realized his reasoning behind it was too keep me at home while he was away, as if I would cheat on him.
Then when his possessiveness, hostility and accusations became to much, it literally made me vomit to think of being intimate with him. He had become a hateful human being..needing some serious psychotherapy.
So he started accusing me of enjoying my toys too much...actually became jealous. So I laid them on his bed (as by this time I had moved into the other room) with a note saying. Don't need them, the thought of sex with you or anything that has to do with you makes me sick, so sit and spin, M*ther F*cker
2007-06-22 13:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shocker that you have no passionate feelings towards him, he's a possesive, insecure douche bag! Buy new ones then break em out right in front of him!! Or better yet lock urself in the bathroom with ur new toys and make sure he hears you use them. Or....Take something of his hostage until he gives them back!!
2007-06-22 13:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If ur likin' the toys more than him it's obvious y he's jealous. Try using them 2gether or have him watch u use them. Who knows-maybe the passion will be ignited.
2007-06-22 13:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Misty D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show him that he does matter to you. If he took them away he must have been feeling those feelings and you know that you wouldn't want to feel that way. Allow him to give them back to you, but it will take time. Make sure he knows how much you enjoy his penis.
2007-06-22 14:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Eric G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest you use the toys together..my guy loves to plus it is a way he can satisfy you while he is recovering and is able to make love to you again..i am sure it will bring back some zest to your love making...happy playing xxx
2007-06-22 13:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by tysbev4ever 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What woman needs "toys" if her man can satisify her ? Do you not have passion for your husband ? he might be right,
2007-06-22 13:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He had no right to take them away... He's full of BS if you had no passion feeling for him you wouldn't be married to the guy.
2007-06-22 13:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you mean, "sex toys", I don't have any. If he took away things I like to do, I'd find another husband.
2007-06-22 13:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋