2007-06-22 06:04:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For me and my wife (Still married by the way) it was just a case of finding out after the kids were teens that we don't have anything in common anymore. She doesn't enjoy the things that I like to do and I don't care for hers either. She'll go to a baseball game or something like that but only if I ask her and I only aske her because I don't want to entertain her complaints that I never take her anywhere. I know she doesn't enjoy it and that kind of ruins it for me so I just don't do it very often even though I love it. This is just one example but you get the idea.
2007-06-22 06:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Donald L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are a job in itself and takes time and effort to make it work. Evolution is a way of life for humans, and therefore, we continue to change. It's up to both people to put their fair share into it and not get lazy. This means, keeping your appearance up, constant communication, space, etc. You don't need to have EVERYTHING in common, but try keeping each other in the loop of things that don't appeal to you anymore. Love will justify.
2007-06-22 13:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apathy, communication or lack of, Taking for granted whats truly important , Having confused priorities . The list is longer than I can list right now but you get the idea .
2007-06-22 17:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby and i both work full time.
i was raising 2 teenagers, taking care of the home, the laundry the kids etc.
then my hubby up and decides to join a band which has to practice several times a week. now his focus is on the band and not his teenagers and certainly not me.
2007-06-26 16:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! Mine shagged a 16 yearold when I was 21 and pregnant, it was kind of down hill from there!!
2007-06-27 19:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people ask questions like the following question that is on this board RIGHT NOW:
"Can you point me to the verse that says gods order is him your spouse and then your child?"
Put your spouse first.....then you wont have these problems.
2007-06-22 13:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
taking each other for granted, financial difficulties, raising kids not having time for eachother.
2007-06-22 13:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they loose interest in the other person mentally, physically or spiritually
2007-06-27 18:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're stomachs get so big they cant hug.
2007-06-22 13:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
probablly their interests would be the biggest
2007-06-22 13:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by redsky_too_nite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋