So in the mexican/latino culture we have quinceneras and in about a year it's going to be my cousins and you know it takes about a year to plan them. and they have this big dance were that damas(ladies) and chambellanes(guys) &15girl dance. so my aunt and uncle asked me if I wanted to be a dama. I had to say yes because my perents were right their and I don't really want to do it but my parents are forcing me. they say I can't say no & cuz my other gurl & guy cousins are doing it to. It's nice what u get to do & wear a fancy dress but i'm not all into that . that's whay i didn't have my 15 in the first place tell me some suggestions if i should just do it & trie to have fun. but the thing is more than 400 people are going to be watching & more cuz some of my relatives & grandparents are coming from mexico and scared if i will mess up.
2007-06-22 06:04:10 · 7 answers · asked by *Dreams* 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
AHH! I had a quinceañera and I also participated in many of them too!
Girl you practice so hard and you get to know the other kids and bond with them that once the day comes you forget about it. You just want to get the whole presentation over with.
Once you do, then you get to enjoy the party.
Make the best of it, start with changing your attitude.
2007-06-22 06:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by MORENA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your problem is just that you are scared to mess up, practice.
If your problem is you don't want a fancy dress, but some other clothes I think you need to come out, and ask your parents if you can withdraw
2007-06-22 13:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i remember when i didntt want to do the dance for my sister's quinceneara...(however you spell it) ha ha but i did and it was worth it cuz i got over the fear really fast and sooner or later i was havng fun n really getting into the music... plus it helped that i looked really hot in my dress...but after i stopped being scared i didnt want it to end n i even put a little extra grind in my part which everyone clapped about!!!
2007-06-29 08:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by ââ¬Â¢ÃÅ¡*Crystal*Úââ¬Â¢ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a shot! have you ever been in a Quince?
it's lots of fun!!!!!!
i'm sure it'll mean a lot to your cousin if you were in her Quince.
But, if there's a specific reason as to why you don't wanna participate in it, then bring it out to your parents and talk to them like an adult and make sure they listen to you.
take care and i hope everything works out for you.
2007-06-26 11:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get the dress and have some fun you may be suprised
2007-06-26 07:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to wear the dress for you...
2007-06-29 01:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Nameless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just have fun....I´m not gonna celebrate my quiceñeras...
2007-06-22 17:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋