I was wondering why I will stay single for the rest of my life if I couldn't find the right guy to come to me. I keep a picture in my wallet and it's a picture of my favorite idol from some rich family. He is famous and that's cool with me.
2007-06-22 06:00:36 · 19 answers · asked by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Television ➔ Soap Operas
You'll stay single the rest of your life if you insist on finding someone that meets your EXACT description of the perfect guy! He doesn't exist! Take each guy at face value and get to know him. There will be things that you can live with and things that will be 'deal breakers', meaning you can't live with someone like that. Find the guy who has the most qualities that are compatible with yours and then be willing to spend the rest of your life working hard to make sure you and him both try being what the other person needs them to be.
2007-06-22 06:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's why? You idolize this guy who's famous and from a rich family. So every guy you meet has to be better than this idol. Realistically, not happening. Don't compare guys to some ideal that you have with high standards. Get to know him, the real him, and let him see the real you. If there's a spark, pursue... give the guy a chance.
2007-06-22 13:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty truly is in the eyes of the beholder. In this case its your eyes.
What exactly do you really want in a relationship?
Are you looking for the Most handsom, or the most popular, most desired....?
Or are you just wanting to find someone that will treat you like a lady and love you like a maniac when you want him to....?
It amazes me how many people
(ladies/women/and men) all look for the wrong things in a MATE...........
Look in the mirrow and ask yourself, am I being too vain, is it just the 'outward appearance ' that I am looking at....?
Start paying more attention to how you LOOK at other people.........try to get beyond the simple 'First Glance' look at the whole person.
Everyone has beauty if we take time to bring it out....
Realize that once you get to really know someone, you will have a totally different 'perspective'. You may find 'hidden beauty' and fall in love.....<3 :)
I suggest that you start with a warm sincere smile (friendly, not necessarily seductive) with everyone you meet. Show yourself friendly.
Be courteous and kindhearted and forgiving to all that you meet. Learn to become a good listener.
Concentrate each day on being the best kind of person you can be. This attracts other people.
When ever someone does show you some interest, don't start immediately judging and comparing Take time to really STOP and LOOK at this person.
Look for signals that this is a geniune person you perhaps could be friends with. That is the first requirement, you don't want to get involved with anyone that you can't be friends with.
You may find if you try this suggestion, you will make alot more friends, and along the way you may find your 'Prince'.
Remember, "you have to kiss alot of toads to find a true 'Prince' ".
Good luck and God Bless <3
2007-06-22 13:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by Butchie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because you want to. nothing wrong with being single- doesn't mean you won't date or have long term
relationships, right?
and... just because someone is rich doesn't mean they always will be- and that goes for fame too. Will you love your the photo in your wallet when he is unemployed and borrowing your money?
His family may not be as rich as they seem , nor as generous as you might imagine....
Suffice it to say there are those who have money, who are well-known/"famous" but .... are not people you would want to marry, so keep that in mind while idealizing your perfect match.
2007-06-22 13:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by insightfireiron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just 14 years old. If not, go out, meet new people and find someone real, not that guy's photo in your wallet.
2007-06-22 13:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by digitalove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter if you will stay single for the rest of your life. Having someone isn't all it's cracked up to be. Just enjoy yourself now.
2007-06-22 13:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Windy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not taking the piss when i say this, but maybe you should get out more. Even if it's just to meet new people and make friends. You'll meet Mr Right eventually.
2007-06-22 13:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by Paulie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing ugly too, but the picture might be a factor too because it's desperate and creepy.
Maybe you should lower your standards, if you're a 5 you aren't going to get a 8 or a 9, even a 7 is out of your reach.
Why don't you go down to the homeless shelter and pick one out. I'll bet there are plenty of men that would love to "date" you. Good luck.
2007-06-22 13:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Well im sure your pretty right.... Well all you gotta do is change well no! not your body or something what i mean is change your hairstyle, your dressing style, your walk, dye your hair, cut it in layers, get new shoes, match everyday, dam! that's all i have to tell you you'll find your true love when you don't spected and on the least person you'll least spected to fall in love with! ~*GOOD LUCK *~
2007-06-22 13:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by ♥BabyGirl!♥ 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
give-up now....Ive tried keeping pictures of Halle Berry in my Wallet & under my pillow but they JUST, DONT, WORK!!!!
2007-06-22 13:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Ronatnyu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋